No, crime doesn’t pay

Do you know when we get carried away by feelings, completely forgetting reason, and use the argument, precisely the fact of having followed your heart? Too many times I’ve used this forged justification, and for your own good, I tell you that it’s best to stop fooling yourself.

Yes, I understand that when it comes to feelings, our attitudes get a little troubled, and our senses end up being inextricable, but let’s agree that saying that you made certain mistakes, because at the time you “didn’t even think” and only followed what your heart did. sent, it’s quite hypocritical of you, because using an excuse that you “didn’t think” when you have something that you are certainly a rational being, ends up making your speech very flawed.

Sorry to be so direct and not subtle, but you know what happens? For starters, your heart only does what you want, not the other way around. He doesn’t have a life of his own, so stop victimizing yourself, since you are the person who is steering the boat there. Not to mention that if you’ve already made the mistake of “falling into temptation” other times, and saw that it always ended up going wrong in the end, then tell me, why make it again? In school we learn to solve some problems through the “trial and error” method, right? Why don’t you try to apply this idea in your life? If you tried one path, and it failed every time, is it not a good idea for you to change paths? Just follow another?!

No, he will not change. No, he won’t regret all the harm he’s done to you. No, he won’t think about you before he goes to sleep, and miss you. No, as you read this text he must not be remembering last night fondly. Want the truth? He must already be planning what to do tonight, and guess what? You are not included in his plans. He is only using you to satisfy his own needs, when it suits him. He likes the idea of ​​putting you on the sidelines, so when he needs to boost his self-esteem, you’re there to give his ego a massage, simple as that.

Stop cheating. Seriously, look at you, look who it is. Look how you treat people. Now, look at him, look at how he is with people, look at who he is with people. Do you think it’s worth continuing to invest your time with a person who has already spent their time with someone else in the first place? Because if you don’t remember, here’s a reinforcement: he’s dating. Yes, and you know you know it. He won’t break up with her to be with you. In fact, it won’t change anything in his life for you… so why is it shrinking so much, to fit into such a minimalist story?

I know the moment you let yourself go, it feels like the most right thing in the world, but what about the next day? Do you wake up feeling good about yourself, do you remember last night with a feeling of satisfaction, of happiness? Or is it a feeling of regret that creeps into your body?

Sometimes we act on impulse, believing that the mistake is worth it, but is it worth it? Is it after so much getting hurt, so much denigration, worth the effort? Is it not time for your life to get out of this storm and finally enter a period of calm?! Stop hurting yourself for nothing, stop making things difficult for yourself. He is not worth it, this situation is not worth it. Deep down you know that no, crime doesn’t pay, it never did, and it’s not going to pay now.

Get out of this.

Diandra Ferracini