Love or work in the foreground? |

In my consultations, one of the most frequent complaints from women is that their partners cannot balance time for work and time for the relationship.

They, in turn, also find themselves in this hot spot – torn between wanting to succeed in their careers, in addition to being beautiful, well cared for and loved.

Of course, there comes a time in our lives when we experience the impasse between dedicating ourselves to work to get that desired promotion or being available for those we love. But do we really need to see only one side of our lives?

Will giving up someone we love really be compensated with professional advancement?

What I see in many cases are people who end up extrapolating their limits between producing excellent work and becoming a slave to it. They fail to respect even lunch hours and forget the importance of having a healthy diet.

Indeed, these people are crossing the line between doing a good job and respecting themselves.

If these people forget to eat, imagine if they are paying due attention to their partner? Most likely not.

Certainly, understanding the couple is very important to stay with the one you love, keeping the relationship in harmony. And the partner is not always able to open his partner’s eyes to the exaggeration of his dedication to work.

gaps to fill

Many people have the view that romantic relationships bring with them problems that can interfere in other areas of life, such as professional life. Really, if we think like this, we will not only attract this type of conflicting relationship, but we will even end up generating complications and interference at work.

In some cases, I see successful people who have some kind of compulsion for their work and believe that their fulfillment lies only in their professional goals. At the same time, they see themselves empty of feelings and alone.

Their relationships, in general, are casual, because these people are not open to having a committed love relationship.

Thus, we see men and women doing very well professionally and with a gap in their love life, because they do not give due importance to this part of their lives.

If you are going through this impasse, ask yourself:

If you are a successful person and think that having a lover at this stage of your life would get in the way of your plans, is it possible that you are not seeing love as a problem? If you have someone and the relationship is complicated, has it ever crossed your mind that you might be using your job as an excuse to not have to make a final decision in your relationship? Do you really want to have a more serious relationship with the person next to you? Be sincere and honest with yourself and look for the answer about what you feel for your partner. Having someone by your side really implies exchanging attention, love and affection. Would a good conversation with the pair, explaining your goals and how you need to dedicate yourself to your work at this moment, not be a solution to balance these two parts of your life?

Making up for a lack of attention on a weekend because you’ve been working too many days can be a temporary way to resolve your love situation. But seeking a plausible solution for both parties requires a balance between working well and respecting the desire to stay together.

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