Love from afar: topics to talk to your partner from a distance

We already know that love from afar is… difficult, a little complicated. If we add to that kilometers and a global pandemic, everything becomes exponentially more difficult.

What topics should you talk about with your partner remotely? Ideas run out quickly.

Keeping love alive requires effort and patiencethat even in close relationships is essential, and the ideal, furthermore, is to have confidence and be honest with your partner.

Here we bring you some recommendations to keep alive the flame of love and create expectations until the next meeting.

Topics to talk to your partner from a distance

Talk about your day

To start, tell your partner about the ordinary things that happened to you during the week, so you will get to know each other better and share moments. Don’t forget to tell him how you felt about it.

Plans for the next meeting

There’s nothing that lifts your conversation more than plans for the next meeting. Where are you going? What are you going to eat? Who visits who? All that motivates.

Watch series remotely

Yes. It sounds strange, but it is something super common that is very enjoyable. They can agree to watch together, each at her house, that series that has them trapped. It’s a good way to feel accompanied.

listen to it

It seems obvious, but it is important to know how to pay attention to their talk (yes, even if it bores you). Pay attention to him, don’t look at your phone, ask him questions related to the topic; In short, make him feel that you are interested.

Clear up misunderstandings

If you have to clear up doubts and clarify misunderstandings, the time to do it is on a video call, never by chat. A good practice to keep you and your partner’s peace of mind is to not hang up the phone until you have reached good terms for both of you.

Ask about your loved ones

The truth is that you can’t stop asking about their friends or family, whether you know them or not. Not only is it because you are kind, it is that you are showing interest and affection by doing so.

Don’t keep things to yourself

We are not encouraging them to argue loudly, we just have to be aware that in a long-distance relationship there are also arguments, and this is healthy and normal. If you avoid arguing because your partner is far away, you will only swallow the problems and that will end up exploding. Calm down and open communication channels.

Add fun

To end a conversation, what better way than to be spicy, silly, funny or even toast as a couple, and from that point on, let yourself go. You will see how your conversations are revived in the best way.

Finally, remember that you will not always be able to communicate, that sometimes the calls will last minutes and other times, two hours, and this is fine and normal.

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