Lilith in the Astral Map: How do you express your sexuality |

A very controversial theme and interpreted in different ways, Lilith, also known as the Black Moon, has several meanings, from fears and dark aspects to sexuality and female desires. Do you know where is it Lilith in the Astral Chart? Clarissa de Franco, astrologer and psychologist, helps us understand the Black Moon for each astrological house.

According to the position of Lilith in the Astral Chart it is possible to discover:

what unconscious processes you usually bring to the surface in your love relationships how you express your sexuality what types of desires you tend to stifle – the famous “hidden desires” what are the possible reasons for some of your frustrations in your relationships.

So that you can understand the interpretations, click here and find out for free which astrological house your Lilith is in.

Lilith in the 1st house

You are in the house of your ascendant, that is, in a very visible position for other people. Therefore, the hidden desires and aspects that you cannot control, in general, are very noticed by others.

In sexuality, those who have Lilith in the 1st House tend to look for adventures, because they are in an emergency to be recognized, to be seen. She can expose herself to risks, because she exposes herself a lot to these adventures, almost always unconsciously.

In the search for recognition, he is also concerned with sexual performance. He is in search of deep experience, but, in practice, he ends up living superficial relationships.

Lilith in the 2nd house

When Lilith is in this position, the person can end up getting lost in the issue of “having”, for example, with excessive purchases, because they need that to assert their value.

Sexuality, therefore, can also be related to certain excesses, because the person with Lilith in the 2nd House seeks material pleasure and needs to experience this pleasure in the body, in life in general and in having the five senses satisfied.

You have to be careful not to get lost in the quest to satisfy this pleasure of “having, having and having” and even involving money and sex or having compulsion in sexual relations. Obviously, this can vary depending on the level of intensity of Lilith in the Astral Chart and how it relates to other aspects.

Lilith in the 3rd house

This is the field of communication and relationship. Whoever has Lilith in this position will probably act on intellectual vanity, will want to be recognized for what she says, what she writes and what she thinks. She probably has great persuasion and seduces with her ideas and intelligence.

Seduction can also be perverse, come with a ulterior motive without the other person noticing. This is because, as Lilith in the 3rd House is articulator and wants to be recognized, the person uses tricks to get what he wants.

The sexuality of this Lilith in the Astral Chart much goes through the act of seducing even before the sexual act itself. That is, by flirting, by exchanging messages, nurturing the relationship in search of conquest. In this, the person with Lilith in the 3rd House seeks to assert himself and confirm that the other person also wants that relationship.

Due to the strong aspect of communication, the person can relate to people close to him or her – such as neighbors – or even seek virtual sex.

Lilith in the 4th house

This is a house considered complex because it takes place more in the deeper countryside. Every need to claim a place and be recognized that Lilith invokes is linked to deep relationships and feelings. This can make it difficult to express your feelings or to be recognized in your deepest feelings.

House 4 also speaks of intimacy, so the person may not want to show their issues right away, not wanting to talk about their feelings, not showing affection. Or else, you can insistently ask the other to do it, showing your affection all the time.

In addition, the person with Lilith in the 4th house has a strong relationship with the “physical” house where he lives. Therefore, she can attract people to her home and wants her partners to recognize her identity from home, seducing the other from that. If you don’t feel comfortable and comfortable in the place where you’re going to have the relationship, you can close off and even get a little cold at the H-time.

Lilith in the 5th house

This house is for free expression. It has to do with what we put out: hobbies, pleasure, the lighter part of life, what is more enjoyable. As Lilith in the 5th House wants to be recognized, in general, she can have excesses, addictions, incessant pursuit of pleasure. Unlike the 2nd house, in which pleasure is linked to the five senses of the body, the 5th house refers more to the act of experiencing life and how others recognize the person.

There may be excesses in the quest to live with pleasure. That’s why sexuality can be risky, you can have sexual partners you’ll never see again and have very instant relationships to, in fact, have pleasure and joy.

You can also be competitive and have excessive vanity to try to prove your worth and prove that the world is at your feet.

Lilith in the 6th house

As Lilith in the 6th house does not like norms and straight things, the person may end up incorporating rituals of desires, such as fetishes, quirks, for example, voyeurism.

In sexuality, the person can either become obsessed with fetishes or move away from this theme and become averse to sexuality, going to a more puritanical side. Disgust can also express itself in the form of “disgust” in the sexual act.

However, what is often denied can end up being extrapolated and these people may have some kind of mechanism that reveals that, in fact, they are not “saints”. That is, you may end up living these rituals in a more hidden way.

Lilith in the 7th house

The person with Lilith in the 7th house wants to be loved, admired and recognized in the field of more serious relationships, commitment and marriage, but not only that. The person wants the look of the other and the others.

Likes to create an elegant image and a world of luxury. For this reason, he likes seduction and can perform to create an image for the other that does not necessarily really represent him. That’s because who has this Lilith in the Astral Chart believes that the look of the other is very important.

Beautiful lingerie, wine, shocking dinners, expensive clothes: this social world is cultivated by those who have Lilith in the 7th house. However, Lilith can manifest itself in the sense that, if the person is not satisfied, he ends up looking for what he wants in another place. Therefore, he can be or have a lover – that is, he maintains that official/social relationship and satisfies himself in a hidden way.

Lilith in the 8th house

This house is emotional and controlling. The person with Lilith in the 8th house usually has more control over what they show their emotions to the other person. You can, for example, be very jealous, but hold back and play games, trying to control the other. In sexuality, you may want to dominate, including sexual positions. She can also be a highly seductive person.

This Lilith in the Astral Map has magnetism and opens gaps to darker aspects. She is a Lilith of power and control. She can also become obsessive or go on a more sadomasochistic side. The person may be fascinated by morbid and mystical things.

On the other hand, it is a house that can attract abuse and, therefore, is more likely to suffer this type of violence.

Lilith in the 9th house

This is the expression house of the need to flirt with the world. Whoever has this Lilith in the Astral Map has a relationship with the foreigner, with the intellect and with life philosophies. Therefore, the person who has Lilith in the 9th House wants to be recognized for his intellect and knowledge. She is vain and wants the world to see her from that perspective.

The person with Lilith in the 9th house may like to break with the tradition of relationships and, for example, have open relationships or experience polyamory. Sexually, this person wants to experience different things, like getting to know a swinging environment, where he can see, meet and experience.

Lilith in the 10th house

People with Lilith in the 10th House are usually very ambitious and have a huge need to be desired and admired. In terms of sexuality, this position of Lilith in the Astral Chart points to people who are competitive in sex. In general, it is also performative to achieve recognition.

These people can get involved with co-workers and even use sexual strategies to achieve the results and success they want in the professional environment. Therefore, yes, you can get involved with the boss, even unconsciously. But you have to be careful not to be used and end up regretting later.

Lilith in the 11th house

The person with Lilith in the 11th House usually seeks recognition in relationships involving friends, social and collective projects. In sexuality, the famous “exchange-exchange” can occur (for example, taking a friend and then another from the same group, then another).

In the dark aspect, whoever has this Lilith in the Astral Map can get involved in disputes in this field and, therefore, experience tendencies of fights with friends because of these exchanges.

Whoever has Lilith in the 11th House can bring eccentricity to sex. Another aspect points to the mixture of social causes with emotions and sexuality. There may be a mix in this field, getting involved with people who are also in this field.

Lilith in the 12th house

Lilith in the 12th house can bring complex emotional confusion. On the one hand, people with this Lilith in the Astral Map seek full relationships, they want to merge with the other and, therefore, they can forget about themselves.

They can also experience periods of isolation, because they tend to be afraid of their full potential and what the relationship can bring. The dark aspect occurs because, as they deal with issues internally and very deeply, they deal with it alone and are unable to externalize and discuss with the other.

If the person who has Lilith in the 12th house has a very strict values ​​card, they may end up repressing their desires, being afraid of fantasies and even masturbating in secret – trying to hide it from themselves. This aspect favors the extramarital relationship, due to the difficulty of handling their own fears and living their hidden desires.

What is Lilith?

According to the most widespread myth, Lilith was Adam’s first wife – also called the “First Eve”, because she came before Eve – and would have been created in the same way as Adam – from the dust of the earth. This means, according to Clarissa, that Lilith would have equality with men and that she claimed this condition both in her relationship with Adam and in the exercise of her sexuality.

However, this “feminist woman” had no place at that time and was therefore banned. Revolted, Lilith would then have associated with the devil, starting to kidnap and devour children.

“For this reason, Lilth represents the female feminine, in relation to men, and the feminine of the mother, in relation to children”, points out the astrologer.