How to know if my ex still loves me, 19 signs that he is still not over you

You may have broken up last week or a year ago.

If your ex still hasn’t gotten over youthere will be some subtle signs (and some obvious ones).

Perhaps you have noticed some attitudes that left you thinking and you are simply confused.

Either way, I’m going to help you figure out if he really has forgotten you or is just pretending to be over you.

Then you’ll see what you want to do about it in the future.

19 signs your ex is pretending to forget you

1) He keeps talking to you

For most people, a breakup means taking a long break from each other.

Or at least so you would think.

An ex who still talks to you regularly hasn’t gotten over you.

In fact, he’s so little over you that he can’t even bear the thought of not texting or calling you regularly.

They might do it under the guise of being “friends,” but come on, even your real friends aren’t that desperate to talk every day.

2) Try to make you jealous

Does she use social media to make you jealous?

If you’re still friends and your ex is suddenly having a blast, posting pics of crazy nights out and “good times,” you can be sure it’s all meant for you to see.

Even more obvious is when they try to physically show off their new life or partner to your face.

Suddenly, they eat at your favorite restaurant all the time or insist on going for coffee near your workplace.

It can even seem at times like they are intentionally getting in your way…

3) Find and invent reasons to find yourself

Suddenly your ex calls you and tells you that he has something important to tell you if you are for a coffee.

You go, but suddenly the all-important reason for getting together is forgotten. They end up chatting for a few hours before parting ways.

A week later, he needs to see you because he “accidentally” left something at your house.

The following week is another excuse.

You know where I’m going…

Your ex will do and say anything that gives him a reason to see you.

Instead of simply confessing that he hasn’t forgotten you, your ex will keep making silly excuses just to get together.

4) Stalk your social networks

The truth is, social media bullying can happen even when you’re over your ex.

We are all curious from time to time and intrigued to see what they are doing with their lives.

But the key here is frequency, that is, do it very occasionally.

If your ex is constantly viewing your Instagram stories or liking your Facebook posts, it is a sign that he is obsessively watching you.

And depending on his level of maturity, he might even secretly spy on you.

I have known of exes who go so far as to create fake accounts just to secretly keep an eye on them.

5) Shout out how much has surpassed you

Another classic sign that pretend to be over you This is when you exaggerate everything about how you’ve “moved on.”

Instead of quietly remaking their life and not caring what you think (as people moving on do), they’ll make it as loud and in your face as possible.

They will spread it all over social networks.

All your friends will find out.

But most likely you are overcompensating.

He needs to create an image because he can’t deal with the struggle of letting you go.

If he was really over you, they wouldn’t even be thinking of putting him on display, he would just move on with his life.

6) You keep bumping into him at random

It’s not a coincidence that wherever you go, your ex magically appears.

He knows where you hang out, and instead of avoiding those places and giving you space, he has become a “frequent customer.”

The truth is that it is the ideal situation for it to appear that it was coincidental… a mere coincidence.

And it’s a way to keep seeing you.

Plus if he’s trying to make you jealous, he’ll always look super cute or go with a new date.

7) Suddenly, your ex is the best friend of your friends

Your ex couldn’t stand your best friends before, and now all of a sudden they’re good friends? Suddenly you feel appreciation and interest in them.

How convenient, right?

When this happens, it’s most likely one (or all) of these three reasons:

He is using your friends to get information about you He wants your friends to pass on information about him He thinks your friends might side with him and convince you to come back

most of the exes who are trying to move on They will avoid hanging out with people close to you, unless they were already friends before the breakup.

8) Act like you’re still together

Does your ex still show up or call you and act like you’re still a couple?

Do you need a hand with something? It is there immediately.

Go to the doctor? Somehow he ends up reaching out and offering his support.

Do you need a shoulder to cry on? It will call you at random hours of the day and night.

He will say that he has fully moved on, but his actions tell a different story.

9) He always has many questions for you

Do you feel like your ex wants to know everything?

From what you ate last night, to who was the guy/girl you were seen with last weekend?

Even if it’s no longer their business, an ex who pretends they’re over you will be incredibly nosy and want to know your every move.

Truly being over someone means that their life/actions/feelings no longer have an impact on us.

We may still care about them, that’s natural, but their lives are no longer intertwined with ours.

So if he insists on hearing from you 24/7, it’s because your ex is still secretly holding on and can’t let you go.

10) He is too friendly when they meet

Your ex’s inability to let you go will be especially clear when you have to see each other.

Whether you’ve met to talk about the kids (if they have any) or you both have to attend the same meeting, he’ll be extremely friendly with you.

This isn’t to say that an ex can’t be nice, but if you overdo it, chances are you’ll be holding on to some hope.

Also look at his body language:

Touches you, even if it’s just a hand on your arm or shoulder

He usually sits next to you or as close as possible

You catch them looking at you and then quickly look away

You see, even if the other signs aren’t so clear, body language is always a tell-tale of how someone is feeling.

Keep your eyes peeled the next time you have to meet him.

11) Always remember the past

If you ever talk and your ex constantly brings up things from the past, it could be a sign that he misses the good old days and wants you back.

It may bring back fond memories of special holidays or anniversaries, or even old arguments you used to have.

Somehow, they are looking for that feeling of familiarity with you by awakening an old conversation or memory.

And anything that makes you feel the way you did when you were together could trigger an emotional response like regret or longing in you, too.

Or that is what at least he expects.

12) He won’t return your things (or pick up his own)

Every time you say you’re going to pick up your things, does something come up?

Or, when you’re trying to retrieve your stuff from its place, does it never seem to be around? (even though you know he works from home and you can see his car parked out front).

Whatever excuses he gives you, it’s just another obvious sign that he’s not really over you.

You are using the latest thing that connects you, as a reason to keep in touch.

Once you pack up your stuff or he packs up his stuff, there probably won’t be much reason to see each other again unless you have kids together or work together.

So if you do everything to avoid it, your ex still hasn’t moved on.

13) Your new partner hates you intensely

Your ex has a new partner, and for whatever reason, she acts like you personally wronged her. Even if you’ve never exchanged a hello before.

A bit weird right?

But, if you think about it, if your ex isn’t over you, chances are their new partner has noticed and feels threatened by you.

It is not a very pleasant situation.

But ultimately, it shows that even though your ex is pretending to forget you, they’re not doing a very good job of hiding it.

So, if you know that he still loves you and you feel that he is with the wrong person, I share a tool that you can apply to get him back to you.

Relationship coach Samantha Sanderson has created a method through which she helps women get their ex-partners back.

This method makes your Ex think of you and be convinced that YOU are the woman to whom he belongs.

Here is the LINK to a short presentation of this method that will surprise you.

14) He writes to you when he is drunk

Have you heard the saying: “a drunken mind speaks with a sober heart”?

Ask yourself, why does your ex insist on texting you when he is drunk?

Well, alcohol has a way of making us push boundaries and lose our inhibitions. He is no longer nervous about talking to you.

Suddenly he feels bold and confident and his poor drunken mind convinces him that calling you at 3am is a great idea.

You may receive a very humble and sober apology the next morning. He won’t be able to deny the fact that you’re still the person he thinks of when he’s drunk.

15) He always wants to talk about the breakup

Another way to know that your ex is faking over you is if he insists on repeating all the reasons why you broke up.

Even if he was the one who ended the relationship, he will still go over the reasons.

I don’t blame you for wondering why they can’t let him go.

But the truth is, they hope that one day the outcome of these discussions will be different… maybe even lead to them getting back together.

16) He gets jealous when you start dating new people

Even though your ex thinks it’s okay to flaunt their new relationship to your face, things suddenly change when you start seeing someone new.

In some cases, they’ll act cool about it, and other times, they’ll be obvious about their jealousy.

Either way, jealousy is a massive indicator that you haven’t moved on.

And certainly, that they’re not ready to see you in a relationship with anyone else.

17) Your mood goes up and down

Does your ex go from love to hate for no apparent reason?

These mood swings are caused by the internal conflict they are dealing with.

He ignores you and then he doesn’t stop texting you.

On one hand, he wants to maintain the image of being over you, but on the other hand, your ex desperately wants you back.

18) He behaves strangely

Suddenly, your ex who was calm, laid-back, and down-to-earth is now out partying seven nights a week.

And suddenly he has a new love for techno music (which he never liked before).

This exciting new version of you is probably just a way to distract yourself from the reality that you can’t move on. He doesn’t even want to.

It’s much easier to pretend that life is great than to be sincere. Your ex will do everything possible to continue with that image.

19) Treats you badly

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