How to kiss a boy for the first time and make him like it –

You are deeply in love with that boy, you have been dreaming of his smile for weeks, his voice is so charming that when he talks to you you melt. Only one thing is missing for your relationship with him to begin, and it is nothing more than that long-awaited first kiss.

Days and months go by, and you keep waiting for the moment to come and nothing happens. It’s time to take the first step, it’s up to you to show him that you like him, and you begin to plan the perfect strategy to give him the kiss that can provide the spark that sparks the love between you.

Your doubts begin to arise, how do I kiss him? What is the ideal time? What happens if I don’t know how to kiss him? How can I make him feel passionate about me?

Take things slowly, breathe deeply and embark on the adventure of kissing without complexes.

And although we understand that kissing is something totally instinctive, emotional and that it must be fluid and reciprocated for it to be worth it.

And we also fully trust that your instinct will not fail you and that this boy will become even more special in your life.

Even so, we want to be your allies and provide you with ten very useful tips to achieve success in that first kiss that you will give to the person who may become your boyfriend.

Take into account that this kiss must be completely pleasant for both of you and memorable. Are you interested in knowing more? Continue reading.

1.- Come closer

In a kiss, height problems between both of them count a lot. This will be the first time you kiss him, so you should find a comfortable position so you can kiss him without your neck or his being tense.

A bad position will negatively influence the enjoyment of the kiss; We recommend that you get as close to him as possible, so you can use your charm to give him the first kiss and awaken his maximum emotionality in him.

We assure you it will light up.

2.- Motivate him to kiss you

This time you took the first step, but you must be subtle, kiss him until you realize that he is so excited that he ends up kissing you passionately.

At this point there is a role reversal, now he is the one who kisses you and feels like he is in control of the situation.

Kiss him slowly, gently, remember that women are delicate, and when you feel that he is the one who starts to apply pressure with his lips, just let yourself go and enjoy.

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3.- Take it easy

It’s your first time kissing him, so take it easy. To get to the kiss is because there is undoubtedly romance in the air, otherwise you wouldn’t even think about kissing him.

So relax, this first kiss should be short and very soft, the rest of the work will be done by the boy.

Look at him, kiss him and look at him again sweetly, each kiss should be short. Later it will be her turn to have long, deep kisses.

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4.- Each kiss is unique

And each kiss stimulates the next kiss, it’s like when you play tennis, the ball comes and goes sometimes faster and sometimes more slowly.

The idea of this first kiss is to show him that you really like him. And for this you don’t need too much planning.

It’s not like you’re going to place your first foot on the moon or something, although the feeling will take you far.

Avoid jumping on him, the idea is to conquer him, not scare him; And also don’t try a French kiss unless he takes the initiative, because he might feel uncomfortable and also be unpleasant for you if this happens.

You will notice that in the near future, each kiss will have its own style, and that everything happened thanks to your first attempt.

5.- Lips open

The lips parted for seconds while you kiss him serve as a strategy to suggest that he has permission to proceed with a French kiss.

6 .-use your hands

When you are already kissing, you can place your hands on his shoulders, caress his neck, or place one of your hands on his back.

This allows a little more intimacy, and raises the temperature of the moment. In addition to helping to maintain a comfortable posture.

7.- body contact

Body contact between two people who love each other or who are feeling passion is pleasant and sexy.

It is not necessary for them to get naked (remember that it is the first time they are kissing) but some rubbing of skin between them, no matter how subtle they may be, could generate an erection.

You should never seem easy, a poorly understood signal can destroy the image he has of you, so a touch of his neck, a quick touch of your bust on his chest, your hips once hitting his member under his clothes is enough.

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It can also seem like a very casual contact if you know how to do it, since when two people kiss they must place their hands somewhere and arrange themselves in such a way that it does not appear that they are disgusted with each other.

You will both remember this additional flirtation to the kiss and you can improve it every time you kiss.

8.- Relaxed face and neck

If you are very tense, your face and neck will be very stiff and you will have a hard time adjusting to it.

When you kiss him, change your neck position and relax your facial muscles so that your lips move better. Turning your chin a little will allow for a much more sensual kiss and will prevent you from dropping his glasses if he wears them.

9.- From one to many

The first kiss can become a series of kisses between both of you. The intensity of each one will vary.

They may start very slowly and suddenly the pace between them increases. It will increase the intimacy between you and you will always want to repeat it. The emotional and physical connection that occurs as a result of a kiss encourages the couple’s chemistry.

Little by little they will discover if it is love or just pleasure, if they are really in love or they are a couple of friends who like each other too much.

If there is no connection with the kiss, it was not pleasant or you felt like you were kissing your brother or your cousin, do not continue trying, because if you did not succeed the first time, it will not happen the next time.

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10.- Sensual touching

This step is for girls with more experience in kissing.

If you are a little more daring and want to go further with that boy, using your hands as a mechanism to support yourself or achieve some special connection will not be enough.

If you’re looking to turn him on, and leave him wanting to go far another time, you have to use your hands and slide them down his back.

You can also lift his shirt from behind and slide one hand under it so you can feel his skin, touch his shoulders and chest. When he feels the pleasure that your caresses give him, he will choose to do the same with you.

All alarms leading to a sexual encounter between you will go off. You set the rules of the game, and you are the one who indicates and allows how far they will go, if you think it is inappropriate for him to touch your breasts or that he is going too far by trying to unzip your pants.

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Or he is squeezing your butt uncomfortably, you can carefully take his hands and place them wherever you see fit.

He will understand the message and change his strategy so that they continue kissing as before.

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Creativity is your ally

We already gave you the 10 keys to properly handle the situations surrounding that first kiss, and thus make him fall in love with you and both of you enjoy it.

Now we recommend some things that you can remember at that moment when you kiss your boy.

Using your imagination and your body postures you can create new circumstances to improve the situation of that first kiss.

A) The car and the cinema are the best places to kiss, this is because they will be sitting and comfortable. The car seat is reclining, this contributes to body posture and creates a good environment between the two.

B) If you choose to kiss him standing, kiss him gently but in short intervals, so you won’t get tired.

C) Standing kisses are ideal for saying goodbye after a first invitation out, this way you show him that you liked his company.

D) Oral hygiene is mandatory before giving a first kiss; If you have just eaten, and there is no way to wash your mouth, and you planned to kiss him at the end of the evening or in the middle of it.

Buy mint candies or gum and start eating them surreptitiously a few minutes before you decide to have the first kiss.

E) Take sips of water before kissing your guy, so your lips are soft and your mouth cool.

F) Demonstrations of affection are essential, a kiss is not enough, show him that you liked it; You don’t have to say it in words, but every gesture counts. Smiles, looks and hugs say much more than words.

G) Give him a double goodbye kiss: Kiss him and walk away, then come back and give him a short kiss, so he will know that you like his company and that he can repeat the evening.

You already know everything you can do and what won’t work, what are you waiting for?

Kiss him, and tell us your experiences.