10 simple strategies to make a friend who doesn’t like you fall in love with you and get out of the friendzone –

Thousands of girls have been in love with a special boy who only sees them as friends and feel like there is no way to change that. But it is not impossible, you just have to apply a good strategy. You can also learn how to make a friend who is not interested in you fall in love with you.

Take note of these tactics to tip the balance in your favor and get out of the female friend zone.

1. Identify what he does like about you

Think about it like this: if you are friends it is because there is a part of you that likes you. A man does not usually have a friendship with a girl if he does not enjoy spending time with her and they have things in common. At least you can be sure that there is something he likes about you. That should be your starting point.

What links them in some way, even if it’s just as friends?

It may be any of the following:

– They get along well because they have a very similar personality and see the world in a similar way. Maybe you have activities or interests in common. You may both be in the same Italian class, the same art club, or in a band.

-Their sense of humor is similar. Their friendship is based on laughing and enjoying the same things.

– They are in the same group of friends. In this case, what made them friends was that they are both in the same circle, without any particular cause. But if they are in the same group it is because there is some common affinity. Are they the popular ones? The intellectuals? The “outsiders”?

– He is physically attracted to you. It may be that some “action” has already arisen between you or that you are declared “friends with benefits.” Only he is not in love and sees it as something “to pass the time”, with no romantic feelings involved.

– He likes about you that you are the friend to whom he can tell everything and ask for advice, thanks to your maturity or knowledge.

How to take advantage of common points to conquer it?

The more things you have in common, the easier it will be to make him fall in love with you and fall at your feet. But if you can only spot one, don’t worry! It is more than enough, because you can build the others little by little.

Structure the strategy based on what you have. If he likes your sense of humor, your challenge now is to start building physical attraction.

If, for example, he already likes your physique, you should start building emotional attraction. If you are the typical “pepe cricket” friend and counselor, you have to make him see you also as an accomplice with whom he can laugh at everything.

2: Identify the cause that prevents him from falling in love with you

Now that you have identified your “strong card,” it is time to move on to the not-so-pleasant process of identifying what is preventing him from falling in love with you. Again, it may be one particular factor or several. The fundamental question is: why am I in the friendzone?

Cause #1: He doesn’t like you physically

Most girls think that without initial physical attraction, there is no hope of making a man fall in love with them. Many also think that the reason they don’t like them is because they are overweight, they don’t have a model’s body or a particularly exotic or beautiful face.

They are wrong. Not liking a man physically from the beginning doesn’t mean you can’t grow to like him, it just means you haven’t pushed the “right buttons” in your perception of him.

Remember that what according to you is a huge defect in your physique (a big nose or some acne marks on your face), he probably doesn’t even notice it or doesn’t give it that much importance. The fact is that, at the moment, he is not attracted “that way” to you.

There are ways to solve it. Later we will show you how to attract him physically.

Cause #2: He likes you physically, but not your personality

The second option is that he has no problem with your appearance. You may even like it, quite a bit. But, even though he finds you pretty, he doesn’t find your personality “sexy” or “attractive.” You haven’t captivated him.

What does this mean? Although men like pretty women, what makes them fall in love has to do with attitude and personality.

How do you know if what you don’t like is my physique or my personality?

It is easy. Usually when a man you are in love with physically likes you, he takes the opportunity to become friends with benefits. But he won’t give in to anything more serious, because you don’t generate real romantic feelings in him.

Cause #3: You have made things too easy for him

Maybe you are the ideal woman for him in every way. He finds you pretty and you also have a personality that is very compatible with his, but it seems too easy to be with you.

Almost all men like a challenge. It is something that is mandatory to fall in love. If from the beginning you let him see that you would go to the end of the universe for his love, what you achieve is that it feels “safe” to you. He knows that you will always be there waiting for him.

That’s why he prefers to take advantage of the opportunity to go out with others. Consciously or unconsciously he may be taking advantage of your feelings for him.

You know this is what prevents him from falling in love with you when he seeks you out a lot as a friend, and even for casual sex, but he never gives you romantic signals.

Cause #4: Not the romantic type

There are men who decidedly do not want to fall in love and are at a point in their lives in which the only thing they are interested in is having a good time. Without commitments of any kind. Even if you meet all the requirements of the perfect woman, romance is not part of her agenda.

You know this is what happens because he doesn’t fall in love with you or any other friend. She has casual relationships and can’t connect with girls.

In this particular case, to make him fall in love you have to be very patient and make sure that you are the first person he takes into account when he finally comes out of his “anti-love” phase.

Cause #5: You had a very big disappointment in the past

In this case it is not about you, it is not that there is anything wrong with you, he simply closed his heart because in the past he experienced a disappointment or a love betrayal that left him “out of order.”

Maybe he can’t trust women anymore, or he was so hurt by his last relationship that he prefers to avoid going through it again at all costs.

In this case, you also require a lot of patience. It is important not to pressure him, but to gain his trust little by little.

Cause #6: You are in love or interested in someone else

Psychologists believe that falling in love is a phenomenon of attention.

That is, when we are in love we only pay attention to one thing: the person we love. If the friend you want to win over is already with another girl, it will be difficult to get him to divert his attention from that other woman to you. It’s a question of biology.

The good news is that the falling in love stage does not last forever. It usually lasts between three and five months. In the worst case, one year. It means you have to wait and be patient, but the opportunity will definitely open up for you again. Do not despair.

Cause #7: He has a girlfriend

This is perhaps the most difficult of the scenarios, because it also implies a moral and ethical factor. It’s no longer just about how to make a friend fall in love with you, there is a third person involved who probably hasn’t done anything to make you steal his boyfriend.

Maybe you’re sure that you have more things to offer your friend in the context of a romantic relationship, and that’s probably true, but you wouldn’t want another girl to actively win over your boyfriend, right?

Well, in this last case you should not lose hope either. Relationships usually don’t last long, especially when young. It’s not about you stealing anyone’s partner. Simply learn to be timely and be at the right time and place.

This way he will notice for himself that there are other better options, that is, you.

How to eliminate your disadvantages to conquer it?

The fewer disadvantages you have, the better it will be for you. But even if you have enough obstacles, you can always change the situation. Remember that your goal is to increase commonalities and try to show that you are “girlfriend material.” Little by little they will create that affinity.

Define in order of importance what he likes about you and what he doesn’t. Try to solve the obstacles one by one, without turning off your authentic personality. To do this, it is useful to take into account understanding what makes him crazy about a girl.

3: Find out what makes him fall in love

For almost all men there is something in particular that makes them fall in love. It does not necessarily have to do with the physical, which is raw attraction, it is the personality and compatibility between the two that causes them to bond emotionally.

So the next step is for you to find out what trait in a woman’s personality she finds completely irresistible. Typically it is one of the following, or may even be a combination:

Confidence in herself. A high level of femininity and vanity. Sense of humor and some impudence. Responsibility, ambition and righteousness. Shyness, tenderness and vulnerability. Culture and good intellectual level.

Since you are his friend, you already have enough access and know him enough to figure out which of these factors attracts him the most. Remember the type of women he has fallen in love with and find what trait they have in common.

You may not have that same trait particularly developed, or you may have it and you haven’t had a chance to show it to them. But it’s all about attitudes and virtues that can always be learned and projected with practice.

4: Stop any signs that may indicate that you like him

If you have already sent him signals, even by email, that you are madly in love with him, stop now! You must accept that if you have sent him signals and he has not responded, it is possible that they simply do not attract his attention or that they play against you and make you less attractive.

When you’ve been in the friend zone for a while, it’s difficult to stop these behaviors – from romantic glances to total availability – because you’ve already gotten used to behaving like this with him. That’s why it’s useful to make a list of things you should no longer do and be careful to avoid them.

Among them are: telling him that you like him, sending him hints on social networks, dedicating songs to him, sending him messages every day, insisting even if he lets you know, offering help without him asking you, saying yes to everything, seeking physical contact with him , etc.

5: Shine genuinely and work on yourself

If you already know what your strengths are, what your areas of opportunity are and you have changed the way you relate to him, the latter in itself could have sparked his interest or, at the very least, his curiosity.

You are probably wondering why you were there all the time before and not anymore. That is a very important point in your favor because he will probably start to miss your attention.

Now, while he racks his brain trying to figure out the cause of your change in attitude, it’s time for you to get to work on what’s most important: yourself.

This is the point that will define whether or not he falls in love with you. If you want others to love you, you need (you already know) to love yourself first. And you demonstrate this in several ways:

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