How to get out of a destructive relationship

The first and most important thing is that you can identify that you are really in the middle of a destructive relationship and for that I will mention below some signs that can help you:

Disrespect

If every time you are talking to your partner there is shouting or disrespectis the first sign to identify that you are in the middle of a stormy and destructive relationship, because when there is true love, despite the differences, there is the total willingness to have good communication. This will then translate into an understanding of the situation, understanding the different points of view of both and above all respecting them and then reaching an agreement or solution together that benefits both of them.

Violence and control

If in the relationship there are episodes of physical or psychological aggression, is a clear sign that you are in the middle of a destructive relationship. If you feel watched, controlled, if you no longer feel complete trust with your partner, do not let it happen, do not allow anything or anyone to disturb your peace, control your life and damage your physical or mental integrity, it is time to act in favor of your happiness and, consequently, that of both of you.

Lack of interest and support

If you are no longer interested in sharing life with your partner, if you see that you are not being a team, that each one’s interests have begun to be very different, if you feel that you both vibrate differently, that there is no affinity, it is time to analyze whether the life plan that you once thought about and desired together is still the same. If not, it is also a sign that you are in the middle of a toxic relationship that is not taking you to the port of love and happiness. So, it’s time to get off that ship and continue heading towards other ports, towards other paths.

It’s a matter of two: A relationship is two people and, therefore, all existing problems or differences should only be resolved between them, without other people, be they friends, acquaintances or family members, getting involved in giving their opinion or trying to help. If either party involves third parties to try to reach conclusions or solutions, they are destroying the relationship, and not only that, but they are also demonstrating their lack of maturity to be able to make decisions and control their own life. The answer is ALWAYS within us.Don’t listen to anyone’s advicelisten to yourself: yes, just as you read it, your inner voice has all the answers for you, and with this oneCOMO article we intend to help you in a general way to identify whether or not you are in the middle of a destructive relationship so that you yourself You can draw your own conclusions and make a decision about it. It is not a question of running away from a destructive relationship, it is a question of learn and evolve together: This is something very important that we must take into account, not run away, not run away from that destructive relationship. The experience of many people shows that if you run away you don’t learn, and if you don’t learn, later on you will be presented with the same problems and situations in another new relationship simply so that you can learn it, because until you understand, forgive and integrate it into yourself. What happened to you, you don’t evolve.Mirror: Our partner can serve as a kind of mirror in which we see what we are and what is inside us that we must resolve. “I see in you what is in me, I love in myself what I love in you.” Now, after having read this sentence, ask yourself the following question: What bothers you the most about that destructive relationship? Depending on your answer, you will see later that this issue is something that you should work on.Don’t take it personally: To get out of a destructive relationship, you must remember above all things that “You don’t have to take things personally” because what happens is not a punishment, it is not something against you, it is something to learn, remember the mirror. Also always put yourself in the other’s shoes, to understand, to understand.Unconditional love comes first: Loving yourself so that you can then love others, being well yourself so that you can then be well with others, is the key. Also remember that the primary objective of being a couple is to love each other unconditionally, and this type of love can only be found by living free of attachments, loving simply for the satisfaction that this feeling produces in you, without demands, without controlling, helping the other to fulfill their life purposes.

In addition, we recommend that you consult the advice in the article how to leave a person who hurts you.

In addition to everything previously said, it would be ideal that if you have already decided to get out of a destructive relationship, you are willing to spend more time with yourself. doing things you like, this will allow you not to focus on sadness or anger, feelings that are normal for you to experience for a period of time, but that will no longer be there, when you have understood that everything has a “why and a purpose.” Prepare a day of a romantic date with yourself! Haven’t you thought about it? Enjoy a day as you wish, that will raise your level of vibration, you will feel peace, love, joy and gratitude.

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