How to get a girl’s attention: definitive guide –

If you like a girl and you don’t know how to get her attention, you are not alone. Literally thousands of men find themselves in that situation many times.

The luck is that it is so common that it is easy to solve, you just need some practical tips to awaken her interest and make her the one who goes crazy for you.

The first thing you have to know is that women respond to stimuli.

If you don’t act to provoke a response, and just stare at the girl you like from anonymity, you will never be visible to her because she won’t even know you exist.

Unless you are very handsome or a popular boy at school or around her, she won’t notice you if you don’t do something to get her attention.

There are many paths to success. Put the following tips into practice so you can learn how to get the attention of that girl you like so much.

Step 1: Discover how to attract their attention, their interests, tastes and passions

In addition to looking at his physical attributes, you should try to get to know who he is as a person.

It is important that you can learn as much as you can about their interests and likes so that you can find the best way to approach or get their attention.

Find out what places he frequents so you can go too.

What sports do you practice or what books do you prefer? With this you can meet her “by chance” in one of those places and start an “impromptu” conversation and thus get her attention.

Once you have her interest, you can learn to captivate her. When you have mastered both aspects, dear, everything will be easier.

Step 2: Learn to identify girls’ interest

That is a decisive step. If you can’t identify that the girl you like is interested in you, you’ll have a hard time knowing if step one, getting her attention, worked.

You’ll know if he likes you, at least a little, if:

He plays with his hair when he’s with you. The more you play, the better. That’s a basic sign of flirting. He looks at you in the eyes, in fact, he looks at you more than normal. It is also very typical of feminine flirtation. He sits close to you, something that did not happen before. When you are in a place, he looks for a way to share with you or be as close as possible, without invading your space. He looks for you, talks about any topic or ask you for help. It seems like she always finds an excuse to talk to you. She hits you affectionately or is always touching you. Physical contact is a natural consequence of attraction. He laughs at your jokes even if they are not funny. He makes himself noticed and acts in a way that can get your attention.

This last one is the most important. Women’s response to feeling attracted to men is to appear attractive and, although it may seem redundant, attract his attention.

Whenever you notice a girl doing things to get your attention, you can at least suspect that she is interested in you.

The best way to measure how your work is going to raise her interest is that: by measuring how much attention she pays to you.

The more efforts she makes to get your attention, the better your efforts to win her over have gone.

Read our guide on what to do to win over a woman

How does attention work?

The following is a formula that gives me results.

Notice.Evaluate: Attractive or not? Achievable or not? Act.

Based on this, attention works like this:

Get a girl to watch you. Consciously or unconsciously, she will notice that you exist just by having seen you and how you acted in front of her. After noticing you, she evaluates you. You’re attractive? Are you reachable? Are you a guy she thinks she can get? If you can get her to look at you and answer yes to all three questions in that kind of evaluation, then you’ll see her attitude change. She will surely start looking for your attention or come up to talk to you.

Don’t follow her!

The worst mistake when you want to conquer a woman is to show her all your interest right away and rush to express your love.

Don’t make the mistake of pursuing the girl before you’ve piqued her interest.

When men notice that a girl starts paying attention to them, they go after her. This often causes interest to be lost and cool.

Relax, don’t rush and let her be the one to chase you, not the other way around.

The goal of this article is to help you learn how attention works and how, thanks to it, you turn out to be interesting to women and thus attract them.

Once you learn how to get that girl’s attention and cultivate attraction, you will gain a powerful and foolproof tool that will help you:

Get lots of women chasing you. Reduce the time and effort it takes to start dating a girl.

That means we’re mainly talking about what to do in point number 1:

How do you get a girl to notice you?

With this resolved, we will move on to number 2:

How to attract women? How does attention work?

Valuable tips

Women respond well to archetypes. If you are one of them (for example: the rock star, the athlete, the artist, the genius) whatever the archetype, they will find you interesting without you trying very hard. They will feel that they already know you for the “type” of person you are and that will tell them a lot about you and if you have traits that attract them.

On the other hand, that can sometimes have a negative side.

When you are very popular, women may not follow you if they feel they have little chance with you.

In other words, if they believe they will be rejected.

That’s why you should always be friendly. Girls look for the athlete, yes, but the kindest and most sociable; the artist or genius to be playful.

If you can indirectly show yourself as the guy who won’t reject them, by being nice and being nice to everyone, then girls will see you as someone who is reachable and therefore more desirable. The feeling you should not give is:

The vain one. The know-it-all. The one who is never alone. The handsome but conceited boy. The one who is always surrounded by girls.

First conclusion

Either you are the tempting and attractive boy who steals everyone’s attention or the one who blends in and looks the same as everyone else, being “invisible”. The midpoint of both these extremes is also useless.

Although it is up to you to get noticed, getting a girl’s attention is not all your responsibility, there are several phases that must be fulfilled and part of them depend on her. Let’s talk about this:

Phase 1: Evaluation and identification

Women evaluate men differently, so getting a girl’s attention isn’t just up to you.

A girl who likes rock stars but not smart guys will evaluate the musician as her type of man and will have an advantage before she even meets him. The sneaky guy will not be of interest to her, not because he is not handsome or has something wrong, she simply will not identify with him.

Second scenario

A girl who likes geniuses or artists will not be attracted or worse yet, might be intimidated by the rock star and his flashy clothing. She will evaluate the smart guy as her type and the musician as someone she doesn’t identify with.

Phase 2: Act alone if it is your responsibility

Acting is almost all your responsibility. What she means is that you can make it easier for her to become interested in you, with the tips we have exposed so far.

That is why the stage of attention and being noticed is decisive. The other things that come after are also important, but their results depend on her way of being and her tastes, not so much on what you can do to get her attention.

That first step is entirely up to you, without it nothing else will happen. Either you are getting girls to notice you and then follow you or it takes more work on your part. In that case, you will need to know very well how to get girls to start paying attention to you.

How to get the attention of a beautiful woman?

When a girl notices you, if she likes what she sees, everything will be easier later.

You will recognize it because she will be more open with you. You will feel more like her friend. She will respond more warmly to your approaches. She will become more involved and reach the point of attachment faster. It will give you opportunities to get to know her and start talking to her.

Basically, your work will be 10 times simpler. Yes, but how do you get a girl’s attention?

Start with the following list, which, while not exhaustive, will serve as a solid starting point and idea generator as you discover your own path to getting noticed more and more:

a) Make yourself noticed when you dress

It’s not about wearing big glasses or pimp hats. Being noticed is dressing elegant. It has to do with looking interesting with outstanding clothing, bracelets, rings, chains and other accessories. Your outfit should reflect your responsibility and present yourself to others. It should be an extension of your personality.

If you don’t look like that and dress like everyone else, ask yourself if you will attract his attention. Blending in, which is the same as not standing out, will not help you.

Tips for dressing and attracting attention

Wear flashy boots. Wear shirts and jeans that fit well. Tailored.Wear a great jacket with one or many buttons, zippers and floral decorations.Be strong and accompany your style by dressing with an authentic personality. Being strong is making yourself noticed.

Accompany everything you wear with cool accessories such as pendants, scarves, watches and rings. Dress as cool as you can. The options are as limitless as your imagination and fashion sense are.

Dressing like this and putting all these tips into practice was what made me the star of the school. The most popular and the one who conquered the girl he wanted. Always attracting attention and never being one of the crowd.

Also read our guide on how to be the most interesting man in the world

b) Cultivate your talent and be intelligent

Although dressing great helps a lot, it is not everything. You have to have a fine sense of humor, be charming and intelligent, as much as you can. Adding all these qualities will make you the most coveted boy in your environment. Plus, different girls will like you; to the most partying, conservative and studious ones.

The simple fact of knowing how to control an environment as you wish and attract the attention of women will be enough to handle the times of seduction, conquest and waiting. All with grace and intelligence.

c) Be authentic and spontaneous

It is known that people, and especially women, give more attention to men who seem to succeed effortlessly than to those who notoriously struggle to make things happen. You must be natural, spontaneous, or at least give the image that you are.

What this means is that if you have to do something that you would normally rush through, for example, making a drink, walking down the street, or simply answering a question, you should do it or answer it deliberately and effortlessly. Those around you will notice it and therefore will see you as a great, divine, seductive and powerful guy.

d) Be playful and fun

Being playful is an attitude that never fails, first in the stage of attracting attention, then to materialize that interest. Women love to be made to laugh and a good sense of humor is always an indicator of intelligent men. It makes you…