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An elementary principle in the field of love is that relationships are complicated. How not to be? if two personalities and tastes come together that, no matter how similar they may be, will always leave the couple on the brink of conflict. This is not necessarily a bad thing because opposites attract.

The statistics are in our favor but that is not exactly positive. For every man on the planet there are at least 7 women. Do you really think that everything is said in your relationship?

If you think that your boy will love you, will be faithful and will stay by your side just because he sleeps with you, it is best that you wake up because that does not guarantee anything. Real life is very different from romantic comedies where everyone laughs at the end.

In reality, your boyfriend can leave you for your best friend, your partner will lie to you as many times as you allow him to, and divorces are as common as marriages. This is our context.

If you like the boy and you want him to stay by your side because he really likes you and not because of any interest, don’t do crazy things like drastically changing your appearance and personality or spending money on gifts to get his attention, stay with me and I will reveal the 20 most effective tips to be a better girlfriend.

1. Always attentive

Paying attention to the boyfriend is underrated these days and is a mistake. Your duty is to show that you are interested in him and his activities, that you enjoy his company.

Do you find baseball or soccer games boring? It doesn’t matter, you have to accompany him and cheer him on from the stands as if you were a lover of discipline. These moments strengthen the bonds of friendship and love in the relationship.

He will continue to include you in his activities if you show an interest in, for example, his taste in movies, food, or entertainment. He will realize that he doesn’t need anyone else in his life.

Read our guide on the 9 ways every woman should treat her man

2. His friends, your new best friends

Men’s best friends are more than that, they are seen as brothers. You have to win them over so they will be on your side throughout the relationship.

You must make an effort to know them. Some may be unfriendly, but they will remain your friends, so it will be a mistake to have them as enemies. Giving them the opportunity without judging them, even if there are women in their circle of friends, will be the smartest move.

When you are about to throw in the towel on getting closer to your irritating friends, if this is the case, remember, for now they have more space in their life than you do.

3. Don’t suffocate it

Give him his space. No one finds it pleasant to have a person who follows them, calls them and questions them all day long. Appearing at your house without warning will please you the first time, then it will generate anxiety and fear.

Make yourself desired. Don’t write or call him when he expects you to. This will make him look for you to find out about you. His patience will run out sooner rather than later if you become one of those women who smother their boyfriends.

4. They need their time

Space and time. Yes, they need both and we have to respect that.

Don’t cause problems when he has a guys’ night out where they drink, play poker, and discuss sports or women, yes, women, because that stuff isn’t out of the question when there are only guys in the house. The important thing is that this will not imply betrayal because they only talk, they do not see them, nor do they touch them.

We also have girls’ nights where we drink, laugh and also talk about other men. Let’s not be hypocritical about it. Him with his friends, us with our friends, this way it will be simple and healthy for the relationship.

Read our guide on 7 ways to be more affectionate with your man so he feels loved

5. Trust yourself

Boys fall in love with a confident woman. Please, do not make jealous scenes in the street, especially when they are unjustified. Tears, complaints and insecurities will gradually undermine the relationship. When you open your eyes you will have already lost it.

Let her know with decency and elegance that you didn’t like that look at another woman. Define boundaries without embarrassing him in front of others.

6. Avoid feeling insecure

Intentionally causing jealousy is a popular mistake among immature women, because the effect is usually a message to your guy that you no longer like him or that he is not enough for you. You can foster insecurity in your boyfriend.

If your partner doubts your fidelity, he will feel uncomfortable and disappointed in his manhood, therefore, he will begin to contemplate leaving you. Hurting his self-esteem verbally will also push him away from you.

7. Cook him

Men are conquered by attention and by their stomach. How many times have I heard guys say: she is not as attractive as I would like, but she takes care of me like a king!

Cook him his favorite dish at least once a month and surprise him with exotic foods as many times as you can. In addition to the fact that he will notice your interest in pleasing him, he will also see how good you are in the kitchen.

Be smart and win over your mother-in-law too. Ask what your boyfriend likes and what are those little things when cooking that make him smile.

I have yet to meet the first man who is upset about coming home and having to smell his favorite dish, the one he ate as a child under Mom and Dad’s shelter.

8. Please him in bed

You can be alert, win over his friends, give him his space and time, be sure of yourself, not make him jealous and cook delicious food for him, but if you are not good in bed and you do not fulfill that need, my dear, you are lost.

Yes, sex is not everything, but for guys it is enough to continue or end a relationship. Men are basic: sex, football or another sport and beers.

If you consider yourself a good lover there are no problems, but if you are still shy between the sheets, it is better that you start being more creative.

Read about the 19 tricks to drive a man crazy in bed

9. Give him praise

If they have details with you, thank them. If he cut his hair, beard, or bought new clothes, applaud him. Recognizing and praising the positive things your boyfriend has, as well as having achieved a personal goal, will make him feel that you value his actions and efforts. This will create and strengthen ties with you. It is important.

10. congratulate him

Your boyfriend will feel good and happy with you if you occasionally pamper his ego. This affection will increase his self-esteem, which will make him a self-confident person. If your boy feels that you support him, he will not want to lose your company.

A boy who has the appreciation and pleasure of his partner will always be a happy man.

11. Pay attention

Just as you demand attention from him, he also needs to be heard… sometimes. Kids have problems at university, at work or with their family, so it will be ideal to ask them how things are going, how they are doing at work, what worries them or how you can help them.

It is important that you always show interest but not with the same questions, because you will invite them to respond in the same way and this will encourage boredom.

Be smart and keep the flame of interest alive. If he is really comfortable with you, he will collaborate to make the relationship dynamic and happier every day.

12. Be grateful for what he does for you

Men know how to value a grateful woman. If your boyfriend makes you a nice gesture, be grateful, because even though you are together, it is not a mandatory condition in the relationship. Also, appreciate it because guys like that are becoming increasingly rare.

Love is not forced, it just flows, so be grateful and let him know it.

13. Be yourself

Having self-confidence is closely linked to being authentic. Men are disappointed when girls value their friends’ opinions more than their own.

The ideal thing to start a full life as a couple or single is not to wait for the approval of third parties for your own decisions. The only one you will have whether you are with him or not, will be you and that will never change. Make your guy fall in love with your personality more than your physique.

14. Don’t harass him

Calling or writing all the time is not a good idea. It shouldn’t even be an idea! Asking him where or who he is with four or five times a day will tire your boyfriend out, make him feel that you are insecure, annoying, and that you don’t trust him. Any way you look at it, it’s a terrible strategy.

Read about the 5 ways to make a man look for you and miss you

15. Don’t expect me to look for you

Sex again. Take the initiative in bed and let him know that you also have authority in intimacy. Prepare surprises, leave clues about your sexual desires, buy sexy lingerie and toys, do whatever you have to do to break the Friday night routine. This will drive him crazy and you will have him in constant expectation waiting for new surprises. Encouraging sex will be rich and healthy for both of you.

16. Girls, no tantrums

There are few things that men hate more than a tantrum. Perhaps a “little scene” is one of those actions they detest.

Don’t reproach him, let alone scold him, if he forgot to take out the trash or left the towel wet. Call his attention intelligently and lovingly. Trust me, he’ll get the message eventually.

How many times have I heard men say: My mother didn’t scold me and you’re going to scold me! These tantrums will only make you a spoiled and immature girl. So how will you tell him?

17. To receive you must give

Demonstrations of love are important to us, but they are earned. To receive you must first give. If your guy feels loved, pleased, and satisfied with all of his basic love needs, unless he’s rude, hateful, or insensitive, he will return the gestures of affection.

18. Win over the family

You have to win over your boyfriend’s family because for some men family comes first. You must foster a friendly relationship based on trust and camaraderie with his father, mother and siblings. The family environment will be so pleasant that your boy will feel really happy. He will have everything in one place.

19. They have feelings

No, boys are not machines, they have feelings. What’s more, a broken heart hurts them more than it hurts us.

Don’t go out with a man just for the experience. Would you like to be used? Don’t do to anyone what you wouldn’t want done to you.

If you are going to be with a man, let it be because you like him, because he makes you feel good. If, on the other hand, you want to be with him for his car, money, or physical appearance, then don’t complain when they do the same to you. Executioner does not ask for mercy!

20. Don’t neglect your appearance

In a relationship, sex and physical appearance cannot be neglected. I meet more and more women who, when conquering their boy, neglect themselves as if they no longer had to fight for him, especially after giving birth.

Men like to feel that their woman is the most beautiful. Which are well represented. If you dedicated yourself to your image to conquer him, why not stay beautiful and sexy now that she is by your side?

Friend, don’t be careless, remember the statistics that we reviewed at the beginning. For every man there are 7 women, so the competition is tough and daily. If he doesn’t see you as beautiful, he will see someone else.

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