How they see us, how I see myself

Do you see yourself as you really are or as others want you to be? This may seem like an unimportant question, but the reality is that it is very suitable for reflecting on this topic.

Once we start thinking about this, we realize that Maybe other people don’t see us the same way we see ourselves.. For example, how you behave or what you show with them will make them form an image of you that you may not share.

All this can influence positively or negatively. Imagine, for example, when you see yourself with a few extra kilos and others tell you that you are fine. It is a simple example that your perspective is not the same as everyone else’s and this influences many things.

Self-portrait

Many of us are full of complexes that prevent us from enjoying ourselves. All this comes from giving an image that we like in front of the rest of the people.

We are constantly thinking about what image to give to others, how they will see us… What we don’t know is that many times people do not see us as we believe or want them to see us.

Do you know what would be very positive? begin to interact with the people around us and ask them directly how they see ourselves. This can help us understand how our point of view is not unique, even trying to see ourselves from the outside we cannot achieve it.

If you have done it, you will discover things that you probably didn’t even consider about yourself. Everything they tell you will help you form a real image, which is what you project to other people. What will you discover about yourself?

Sometimes we allow ourselves to be influenced too much by what we consider to be expected of us. How do others want us to be? This can form an external image of ourselves with which we do not feel identified.

Sometimes if we are with manipulative or aggressive people who subjugate us, we can end up giving an image that does not correspond at all to how we really are. Why is our pride relegated? You are being how others want you to be. Do not let that happen.

How do you see yourself

The way you see yourself will influence how others see you.. If you have complexes they will manifest and people will notice them and know them.

Anything, wanting to be someone you’re not, trying to please everyone, being yourself and not letting anything influence you, having personality, it all shows! What should you keep in mind when reflecting on how you see yourself? Two very important factors:

What you think about yourself becomes realityWhether you want it or not, everything that passes through your mind will manifest itself in some way. Therefore, think positively and leave the negative in a distant place. Thinking positively about yourself will be very beneficial for you.Beauty is created inside you, everything good, everything positive, has to come from you, not from anyone else. Why hide how we are? Manifest your true self, because sometimes we want to be who we are not. Accept yourself, accept that beauty and manifest it.

Also, one of the important things you should take into account is how you treat others. Everything, absolutely everything is going to talk about you, it is going to give information about your person.

Treating others well, being respectful, will make others see you in positive eyes.. It is normal that one day we have a bad day, we are human! But how we treat others, that’s how they will see us.

Your perspective is not the only one, and we do not see the things we see as they are, but as we are. If we are negative we will see everything negative, and that is how others will see us, as negative people.

Try asking how others see you! You can share with us what you have discovered. This little exercise that costs nothing will help you open your eyes and see yourself from different perspectives other than your own. What have you learned about yourself now? Realize that your point of view is not the only real and true one.

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