For healthy relationships: sincerity

Sometimes you’ll find yourself screaming at the mirror that that person who could be everything you’ve always wanted is an idiot who doesn’t see how much you want to do her right and wastes all the affection. She throws away the attention you give her with childish attitudes. Go figure. How many do not complain about the lack of having someone. Then, you appear willing to be all this dreamed of and the other just doesn’t see it.

We’ve all been in this situation.

The truth is that the person judged to be the right one will be the wrong one many times over. It will cost you worries and reflections in the middle of the day, at bedtime or while listening to some music on the radio. In fact, Amor songs handle this kind of imbroglio perfectly.

Who has never turned on the radio at a random time and in ten minutes heard something that reported their exact “wake-up-to-see-I-want-to-make-you-happy” moment? It takes work, I know. This thing of liking ends up generating in us an inevitable expectation that, almost always, goes to shit.

Expectation is the mother of shit. Expectation is fertile ground for everything to turn out the other way around. Still, even taking the mantra “don’t create expectations” for Life, I know how close to impossible not to cultivate it. Even because, the other always finds a way to leave a point loose and keep you hopeful that everything will work out.

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To give in to yet another disappointment.

Okay, I don’t want to give a pessimistic view of this whole figure, but I just want to alert to the fact that things don’t always go where we want.

It would be very easy if there were always the predetermined steps of “meeting”, “being enchanted”, “staying”, “dating” and the bonus of “being happy while it lasts”. It just doesn’t work like that. There are several shortcuts, detours and, of course, traps along the way.

So that no one gets hurt in the end, I pray for sincerity and calm; slogans that also hide their tricks. There are those who are too sincere and scare the other. There are those who take it too calmly and bore the other. There are those who are “sincere”, with false quotes. There are those who take it easy, the kind of winding. And so it goes. Like any relationship you take, always choose dialogue. Talking everything is ok.

Gustavo Lacombe

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