Eroticism, the metaphor of sensual sexuality

When tranquility reigns and we surrender to disconnection, we are able to balance the neurochemical and neurological constellations that allow us to get closer to orgasm, sexual fun and pleasure. Also, sometimes It can be difficult to look honestly at our sexuality and give it free rein. through sexual care, insinuation and imagination, in short, eroticism.

As we see in the image that heads this article, We have the ability to give an erotic meaning to almost anything. It is our social and biological nature that offers us this possibility; That’s wonderful and there’s no point in giving it up.

Our sensuality, a neglected territory

Sensuality has a lot to do with sexuality but it is more related to the eroticism with which we permeate our bodily, sexual and emotional contacts. Many times the rush combined with discontent with our body image prevents us from relating to our body in the correct way.

Sensualizing ourselves eroticizes us, reaffirms us as women and men. We cannot let that powerful energy fall away from the fertile ground that nature offers us and that our language, our history, our work and our life offer us.

Who has not been frustrated at some point by the lack of own and shared sexual initiative? Who has not blushed when thinking about the sexual magic that some of our thoughts give off? Who has not mentally and behaviorally refused to buy a sex toy or to shamelessly look at their curves and intimate areas?

We can end this, just It takes willingness to recover the eroticism of our feminine sensuality… Let’s see what we can do to regain that power that we have but that we have either lost or have never cultivated.

Recover our eroticism, recover our sexual health

We can all be sensual, we can all eroticize. Starting from this base we must highlight a handicafeminine p. Women have been raised to feel that we are only worthy of sexual pleasure if we look, shape, or weigh a certain way.

For this “simple” reason we tend to be surrounded by endless fears and insecurities that end up determining how we fertilize the soil of our sensual sexuality. That’s why, To improve the relationship we have with ourselves we must pay attention to the following points:

1. Consciously decide to be sexual and feel sexy

Feeling attractive has little to do with our appearance, rather it has to do with our inner work. That’s why if through our internal dialogue we tell ourselves things like “I am irresistible” and we repeat it to ourselves at least twice a day, we are giving our mind clues to consider itself as such.

See Bodansky puts it this way, “When a woman knows how to get excited by feeling attractive, she sends a signal to the world that changes what others perceive and attracts.” Put on nice underwear, read erotic novels, take sensual baths, fantasize more. This is valid for all sexes and orientations.

It can be difficult to carry out these actions when we have to take care of the children, work or coordinate and think about hundreds of things. However, it is worth saying that if you want something, it costs you something; so It is the turn to consciously decide whether to have a good, healthy sexual and sensual life.

2. Focusing our attention on the sensual helps us

In our culture, sexuality has been made a premise through which to sell everything; However, few people think of it as a priority. If we want our eroticism, our sensuality and our sexuality to improve, we can spend time thinking about it.

3. Feel healthy, step 3 and essential.

Doing aerobic exercise 3 times a week for at least 20 minutes makes us feel better and our sexual fitness is enhanced. Thanks to sport we will achieve good blood circulation in the pelvis and in all our erogenous zones, which will contribute to a. Don’t forget to perform Kegel exercises regularly.

4. Getting to know each other, another step to become erotic

As we have explained on other occasions, the upper left quadrant of the clitoris, the lips and the nipples are the most erogenous zones par excellence. However, we have hundreds of more. That is why it is important that we explore and experiment with our body; like is logic, We will not be able to take anyone to a place where we have not even been there.

By knowing ourselves we take responsibility for our pleasure. It is good that we look for the fantasies that excite us the most since when we use our imagination to excite ourselves, our body and our mind join in the same melody.

5. Consciously increase our capacity for pleasure

We have more capacity to feel and give pleasure than we have been led to believe. In fact, disciplines and philosophies like tantra show us that we can reprogram our nervous system to intensify and prolong orgasmic pleasure.

6. Help your partner to be a good lover

Nobody is born knowing how to be a good lover. That is why it is important that we learn together with our partners to be more skilled in the arts of lovemaking. Orgasm does not have to be the ultimate goal but you can talk, kiss, and cuddle with the intention of enhancing sexual sensuality within the couple.

7. Be creative, essential to fertilize the soil

Trying new things helps us get out of our routine and work with our ability to imagine. Being able to expand the ideas we have about ourselves and getting hold of sexual literature or exciting music is a great aphrodisiac and stimulant. We are a box full of surprises and it is worth cultivating that ability to eroticize our life and our body.

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