Erotic products to liven up the relationship |

Did you know that a good sexual relationship is fundamental to maintaining the quality of the relationship? The Ministry of Health also defends the practice of sex and guarantees the numerous benefits it brings to health: healthier heart, quality sleep, less stress and greater perseverance with the love relationship. Therefore, investing in improving sexual relations is good for everyone’s health and also preserves the relationship.

The couple who get along well in bed have greater intimacy and complicity, are more understandable and better tolerate the routine problems that appear in the relationship.

To energize and heat up the romance, there are countless sexual products found in sex shops; all you have to do is evaluate which one or which ones best suit the needs or tastes of each couple, and prepare an unforgettable night. Sex coach Li Rocha, a specialist in sexual products, warns that although these items undergo thorough tests, it is worth testing them on an area of ​​the body, such as the wrist, and waiting a few moments to see if there is an allergic reaction. “Some products have a momentary therapeutic function, because, during sexual intercourse, they reverse conditions such as vaginismus, anorgasmia and premature ejaculation (take a test here to find out if you have any sexual dysfunction). They also increase the sexual desire of those with low libido, ”she explains.

What you need to know before using erotic products

It is preferable that products that are introduced into the vaginal canal are avoided by pregnant women, as each one has different compositions, according to the manufacturer. In addition, many of them intensify local circulation, increasing involuntary contraction in the region, which can accelerate labor.

Products vary from brand to brand and can act in very different ways, so if you don’t have the desired effect, look for the same product from another manufacturer. Another tip: all sexy shop products usually come with the description “massage oil”, as there is still no organization that releases its use for the promised purposes – despite being on the market for a long time, in specific stores, and having passed through numerous approval tests. So, remember to write down the usefulness of each product, so you don’t forget later.

for oral sex

Products for oral sex, for the most part, disguise strong odors and provide different flavors. Others act specifically on sensitivity, providing a sensation of “shock” or vibration, a hot or cold effect, or simply making the region more sensitive, to enhance the stimulus and, consequently, the pleasure.

Flavoring gel is one of the products for oral sex. Some taste like the typical mints, very refreshing, warming and chilling at the same time. The sensations of this product are felt according to the region where it was applied. It is worth mentioning that there is also an oral flavoring to disguise breath and lubricate the mouth. This one, specifically, cannot be placed in the genital area, as it may contain alcohol.

for sensual massage

Massage is a great weapon of seduction, as the body disconnects from the external environment, turns to the stimulus it is receiving and relaxes, opening itself to excitement as well. In fact, there is a fine line between relaxation and excitement from massage. At the same time that the Hindu peoples, with their wisdom, enjoyed Ayurvetic massage and the health it could provide, they also relied on tantric massage, which works on the individual’s sexuality and sensuality.

Massage is especially indicated for those who cannot concentrate much on the sexual act, because they have a very hectic workload or routine, which can make it difficult to relax and concentrate on something other than work. Both the person who receives and the one who gives the massage relaxes and dedicates themselves to the present moment, which greatly increases the couple’s involvement.

The massage candle can be used in this practice. It must be lit and passed close to the body, so that the melted drops, very hot, fall on the person. The effect is very tasty, different, relaxing and exciting for those who receive it. Because they are paraffin-free, these candles do not burn, and there are even some that are edible! If the partner knows how to conduct this moment well, the practice will be even more involving.

The tip for the massage to be more sensual than relaxing, and you are not surprised with the partner “snoring” during the procedure, is that the touches are always ascending, starting from the bottom up, for example: when massaging the back, start from the lumbar and go up.

The touch can be light, but just right. Too light touches can cause distress for some people, so always be aware of the other’s reactions and adapt, let the massage be taken like a dance.

Between light touches, you can also make some firm touches, but with your hands flat, like for example on the waist, on the trapeze and on the neck, for the partner person to feel your hand enveloping them. Don’t be afraid to play!

Another product tip is the massage bar. It is a bar that resembles soap, it is square and you use it – instead of your hands – to massage your partner’s body. She is also highly hydrating and very relaxing.

If you want something more daring, you can use the “Spanish” massage gel, which sharpens the sensations of the body where it is placed. Therefore, it is indicated to use it in erogenous parts and, as the name suggests, in the breasts, mainly, of both women and men. This product only manifests its effect when stimulated, so put it where you want and then touch, massage, kiss, blow and go wild in your imagination.

to masturbate

Masturbation during sex increases the couple’s desire and intimacy, making the act more authentic and pleasurable. For women who like to masturbate their partner, or even those who have difficulty, the “tenga egg” is a great male masturbator. It is a silicone egg, full of bristles in the shape of a heart. To use it, just put a good lubricant inside the tenga egg and wrap the penis with it. After that, perform the masturbation movements.

If you prefer to use your own hands, you can just count on a product that makes the movement more fluid and light, the so-called “silk touch”. With it, the hand glides more easily and makes the movement more pleasant.

Now if you want to increase sensations, or cause different sensations along with the touch, Expand is a great product for that. Developed especially for men, but also used by women, it enhances sensations, warms and vibrates, is an excellent vasodilator, must be passed on the glans of the penis and then spread through touch or masturbation itself. It is known as an orgasm enhancer.

To intensify orgasm through penetration

The “drops of pleasure” gel is considered one of the best, according to sex coach Li Rocha. She says that he is able to increase the temperature of the vagina, reaching up to 50º, which increases the pleasure of both during intercourse, in addition to facilitating orgasm in anorgasmic women.

The product must be placed on the tip of the finger, about five drops on average. Then introduce your finger into the vaginal canal, spreading it on the vaginal wall, with “u” movements, already taught in this matter, called perineal massage.

The product is composed of tea tree, ylang-ylang and clove, an extremely aphrodisiac composition. Carnation causes vasodilation, which increases local blood circulation, providing greater pleasure. The product can also be passed directly on the G-spot (the most prominent region within the vaginal canal, perpendicular to the clitoris), and also on the clitoris itself.

Similar to the “drops of pleasure”, there is also the “hot spot”, which has the function of warming up and is used by men, on the glans, or by women, on the clitoris and vaginal canal. It is also a vasodilator that provides a warming sensation.

for anal sex

This is a very controversial practice, as it is usually requested by the male audience. I receive numerous emails from women who want to satisfy their partner’s desire and ask for help to reduce the pain or to relax their muscles and be able to perform such a practice.

Before practicing, I indicate that you read this article, which talks about the subject and details the necessary care for it. Physiologically speaking, the anus does not have an anatomy for anal sex, therefore, if you want to perform the practice, some care is essential. One of them is the use of lubricant with a higher amount of analgesic. But those who are already used to the practice can look for lubricants with little or no analgesic, and even other products that provide different sensations.

Never use products that remove all sensitivity from the region, such as xylocaine, commonly used in the past, as pain is a reference limit, and if there is no sensitivity, the injury could be quite serious.

The “deep esy” is a sphincter dilator with analgesic. The gel is meant to be introduced into the rectum, while the cream is meant to be placed around the anus on the outside. It can also be used in the vaginal canal for those who experience pain in the relationship or for those who have difficulty penetrating.

Another highly indicated product, for during and after anal intercourse, is the body moisturizing gel with microcapsules made from jojoba, which provides a healing effect on possible injuries that may occur during intercourse.

For those who are already used to the practice, you can use the “just joy” product, which has the same lubrication, but with less analgesic, to have greater sensitivity.

To prolong male erection and delay ejaculation

For men who want to prolong the relationship, there are many products that help with this goal. The penile ring is one of them, it is a silicone ring placed at the base of the penis when erect. In addition to delaying ejaculation, the penis is even firmer. Already the “hotlong” is a cream placed on the body of the penis and glans, but the product must be passed when the member is not yet erect. It causes the same effect as the ring: it prolongs the erection and delays ejaculation.

Now just choose the best product for your relationship and try it. Remember that the best tool to make the relationship wonderful is you, so trust what you’re doing, trust yourself, focus on the present moment and surrender without fear. Every sexual relationship is a chance to get to know each other better and to awaken our dormant sensuality.