Erotic dreams: find out what they mean

Discovering the meaning of erotic dreams can reveal a lot about your sensuality. Experts talk about the main female erotic dreams.

caught in the act
You’re having sex and someone shows up or the phone rings. “In general, it means that you face some sexual difficulty”, says Aparecida Favoreto. That is, it is difficult to live your sexuality freely. “You see the situation interrupted and you can’t satisfy yourself, because you don’t put into practice what you really want”, she explains. Maybe it’s time to prioritize your desires and get rid of old and mistaken beliefs.

public sex
Another dream that usually reveals some kind of inhibition. “It may indicate that you want to assume sexuality, feel desired and let your erotic side out, but are afraid to do so”, says Aparecida Favoreto. Being afraid to assume one’s sexuality is the shortest way to frustration. Assess what inhibits you. Do you really need to act like this? Maybe it’s not time to turn the game around.

In bed with an actor
For Luciane Secco, this dream could mean that you have been living a lot in fantasy. “You want something unattainable,” she warns. How about going back to reality? Surely there are many good things happening in your life. You just want to see.

with someone known
You need to ask yourself: was the dream good or bad? “The sensation will bring you the answer”, clarifies Luciane Secco. For example: if you found yourself having sex with a friend and you liked it, Luciane recommends that you look for the qualities that he symbolizes for you. “Perhaps you want to be in a relationship with a partner who has the same traits,” she says. “His face is not so relevant, but the emotions he evokes”, she concludes.

With a wonderful man
To find out what it is, the ideal is to do as in the previous situations: describe the personality of the man. Maybe you’re looking for a prince charming – and you need to understand that this is fantasy. It’s time for you to seize the moment.

forced sex
Nothing to do with premonitions. It often reflects a desire to be free about sexuality. “You think, ‘I’m not responsible for this kind of sex. It is the other who is taking me by force’. That is, you may not want to take responsibility for your own desire”, says Aparecida Favoreto. She clarifies that this dream arises as a way to get pleasure without guilt. “It’s a dream where you don’t consider yourself responsible for what happens.”

For money
“Maybe a voice inside you says, ‘Only prostitutes do this or that.’ So, you embody this role”, says Aparecida Favoreto. This occurs, in many cases, if the person learned from a young age that there are very strict limits to pleasure. To get out of the conventional in bed (and have oral, anal sex, masturbate…), you need to assume the role of someone who represents a forbidden relationship with sex.

With someone of the same sex
Do you have homosexual desires? Not necessarily, say experts. According to Aparecida Favoreto, this dream often manifests a desire, yes, but to have a relationship with someone who understands: someone who is delicate, attentive… like a woman.

sleep with the ex
According to Gayle Delaney, you must be repeating partners in real life without even realizing it. “There’s a tendency to date men who act a certain way,” she explains. Analyze what outstanding characteristic this ex has. It may be the feeling you are looking for in new love relationships.

In bed with the boss
It often has to do with the authority figure he represents. The feeling is what matters most: if it’s bad, it may be that you’re feeling coerced in everyday life, whether you’re in a romantic situation or not. If it’s good, maybe something about him reflects what you expect from a partner.

threesome
According to Gayle Delaney, once again you need to be aware of emotions. If you had fun, it might be time to overcome sexual inhibitions to be happier in bed. It doesn’t mean that you have to have a threesome, but rather try to overcome some difficulties that prevent you from fulfilling yourself.