Envelope tea? The new pre-wedding party format has caused controversy

Traditional teas are already part of the wedding preparation schedule. In a way, they serve as an excellent opportunity to gather friends and, of course, win treats to decorate the new house.

A new tea format has gained ground among couples: the envelope tea🇧🇷 The party is, in fact, a traditional tea, but also a delicate way of “asking” friends to offer money instead of gifts. Each guest gives the couple an envelope with a sum of money and good wishes.

Shared in bridal forums, the idea has caused controversy and divided opinions.

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In general, this type of tea is an option for couples who already have their house set up or who want to gather a sum to invest in their honeymoon.

Because it is a delicate topic, the bride and groom who opt for this model of tea tend to restrict the guest list to a small number of close friends and family, as they closely followed the wedding preparations and are aware of the couple’s needs.

Envelopes containing money are usually opened and the bills placed on a board or pot, in full view of the guests.

Although the envelope shower is quite practical for the couple, the invitation can cause embarrassment to the guests, if it sends the message that the cash gift is a must.

What do you think of this idea?