Don’t know how to make your partner happy? 13 simple keys

If you are reading this article, I am sure it is because you love your partner very much and what you most want is to see him well.

Do you have doubts that your boyfriend is happy or dissatisfied?

Do you feel afraid or do you feel desperate about the possibility that he will leave?

Do you want to make your partner happy? and make your relationship even better than before?

First of all: I think it’s great that you want to learn how to make your boyfriend happy.

But at the same time, I have a warning:

Are you sure he’s not taking advantage of your delivery?

Is he also giving back and making YOU happy too?

Making your boyfriend happy is greatbut you could accidentally create a one-sided relationship, where only you are the one providing.

And when that happens, neither of them will be happy.

Now, having said that, there is no need to panic.

This article will teach you everything you need to know about how to make your boyfriend happy and also how to be happy yourself.

The first is the first: your boyfriend will always be happy with you As long as I’m IN LOVE with you.

So let’s talk about that first.

How do you keep your man in love with you?

Of course, It’s not about doing EVERYTHING to make your boyfriend happy. …if he doesn’t even reciprocate.

That’s the perfect formula for years, even decades, of heartbreak.

What you really want is for him to look for you, want you, need you.

I mean, you don’t want him to feel like you’re guaranteed. That he will have you when he wants and how he wants.

Instead, he should feel like he’s the luckiest man in the world to have you.

If he feels this way, he will never take you for granted.

That is rule no. #1 in relationships.

So how do you get your boyfriend to “chase” you?

The easiest way is, ironically, by being independent. Is that how it works:

You need to have your own life You need sources of joy, progress and creativity that don’t involve you You have a good life, so your presence in it makes it even better.

As you will see, this is the opposite of chasing him. Forks the first thing you should do if you want to make your boyfriend happy.

Now let’s talk about the 13 keys to make your boyfriend happy.

How to make your boyfriend happy

1) That he counts on you

Few things will motivate you more than having a “trusted partner” in your life.

So get ready for:

Help you when you need it Support you when making decisions that are important to both of you Encourage you to relax and unwind after a big accomplishment Lift your spirits when you are down

2) Listen carefully

Practicing active listening is not something that will only help you in your relationship and to make your boyfriend happy.

It is something that we should all practice towards all the people who cross our path.

But especially in the couple, listening to him carefully will make him feel understood and loved.

This will make your bond closer and closer and trust each other.

3) Stay attractive

Men are visual creatures.

Social trends may want to change it, but you can’t beat Mother Nature when it comes to our sexual instincts and attraction.

That is why it is much better to be on his side in this case.

Also if you look good you will feel good, and that is not a benefit only for him.

Ask yourself: What attracted him to you in the beginning?

Was it your hair? Your eyes? Your body type?

Whatever it was, keep it, and enhance it if you can. It’s a great way to make him happy.

4) Talk about your emotions and feelings. always be honest

Couples who talk openly about their feelings develop a much more trusting relationship than those who don’t.

Those intimate secrets that you share or those things that are told only between you will make the complicity grow between you.

I assure you that he will be happy to have you to share his most private secrets.

Sincerity is a basic pillar if you want your relationship to be strong and for him to feel happy in it.

5) Be cheerful and joking

If your boyfriend sees your relationship as a “fun” place, he’ll love it.

And that’s why being light-hearted and humorous is a great strategy.

Use your beautiful and playful feminine energy to attract, excite and motivate him.

You can make fun of him, for example, with jokes and double meaning phrases.

You can also play sexually, for example by wearing sexy new clothes in the bedroom and practicing new techniques in foreplay.

By teasing, you are “leading” him, awakening his natural masculine energy and making him chase you.

6) Show him that you trust him

Trust is something that is built in couples as they get to know each other.

if you really trust him you will make him happy by showing it to him.

Avoid questions and let him have his private and individual life.

you will see how you will feel grateful and happy that you let him be and trust him and the impact that this will have on the couple.

7) Cook for him

Before someone yells “gender roles” at me, consider these two facts:

Being a chef is almost universally considered the “sexiest” and “most attractive” occupation in the world;
And cooking for your partner is a potent combination of science and tradition, so it’s always a fun part of any seduction process.

Also, a homemade dinner is always more romantic than ordering food, don’t you think?

How to make your boyfriend happy when he is sad

Whether he lost his job, or his favorite sports team lost the championship. Or even someone close has passed away, your boyfriend will feel sad and discouraged.

Make him happy again with these four tips:

8) Ask for his manly help

A special peculiarity that all men have is that they would rather be unloved than useless.

Being useful is what gives meaning to their lives.

That is why nothing will get him out of his anguish more than asking for his male help.

Even if you just ask him to open a jar of pickles too tight for you, he’ll bring him back to his happier self.

9) Surprise him once in a while

Speaking of snapping him out of his bad mood, try giving him a pleasant surprise.

You could take a detour to a restaurant you like, or give him a gift he’s been wanting for a while.

Even for a moment, he will forget what makes him sad and remember that he has a girlfriend who loves him.

10) Be trustworthy

If you ask any man what he wants in a partner, “trustworthy” will almost always be in the top 3.

You can bet that your boyfriend will love being able to confide in you.

Just keep the basics in mind.

Reliability means remembering your promises and keeping them, being there when he needs to talk, and being reasonable with your decisions.

11) Do not stop telling him how important he is to you

Think about how much you like to be shown love and affection.

Well, for him this is no different.

Learn to show him how you feel, how important he is to you.

Tell him that you love him, that you love him, that you admire him.

I guarantee you that you will make him happy and it will also make him more affectionate with you.

12) Hug him

Believe it or not, most men love hugs.

A small percentage don’t like them, so there’s a chance your boyfriend is one of them.

Try it anyway. You might be surprised at how much he likes it.

Hugging releases endorphins, relaxes the mind and body, and calms the nerves.

Give him a quick hug every time you meet him in the house; it will make life feel so much lighter.

13) Enjoy activities together

Sharing an interest with your partner is a fundamental key to your happiness and the well-being of the relationship.

Take an interest in their passions and start sharing activities that you both enjoy.

They can go running together, play paddle tennis or go dancing at that place they love.

The important thing is that you enjoy the time together. That will make them happy and strengthen their relationship.

learn to be happy

If someone asks you what you want in life, surely being happy is one of the first things that crosses your mind.

A serious mistake that we make is to think that happiness is ours. We think, when I have a partner I will be happy, then when we buy a house, when we get married, when, when when…

But the real key is to find our happiness in each day.

Be thankful for the simple things:

a nice sunny day having people who love and care about us a hot shower a meal every day

At the end of the day, it is in the appreciation of what we currently are and have where true happiness is.

It is very nice to want to bring happiness to others, because in the end that comes back to us.

But you should know that the only one responsible for your own happiness is you. And the only one responsible for your boyfriend’s happiness is himself.

You should not assume their happiness as your responsibility because the answer is not found there.

Life brings us challenges and events all the time and what makes them good or bad is the way we perceive them.

So encourage yourself to be happy and share your joy with those you love.