Do you think you own the truth? |

They are difficult to deal with. Known as a short fuse, they don’t think twice before exploding in the face of any setback. Even worse if your opinion differs from theirs. People who consider themselves owners of the truth do not spare arguments, words and whatever else is needed to prove that their point of view is always the right one.

They are intolerant, do not beat around the bush and have a behavior that borders on fanaticism when it comes to making their point of view prevail. When they think they are right, they are like a tractor that runs over anyone and hinders any possibility of living in peace with those around them.

It’s okay that nobody is made of iron and many times in the face of stress situations, the person ends up having a more acute reaction. But it’s hard to live with those who explode constantly and for the most common situations. It’s like walking on eggshells and mincing words.

The impulsiveness of these people who are guided by the heat of the moment, blinded by anger, and the desire to be on top makes them act and speak without thinking, sowing hurt and discord. And they leave a negative mark wherever they go. Friends are rare items in their lives.

Intransigent and very critical, they react as they do not accept the other’s point of view and the other’s differences. If people are not like them, then they are wrong. They lack the understanding that comes from the compassion of those who know how to lovingly welcome the diversity that exists in the world.

In life you have to have softness, sweetness and lightness. A heart that knows how to reconcile these characteristics with wisdom flows through life with gentleness. Respect other people’s opinion and understand that true achievement is not to prove anything to anyone, but to live in peace with yourself. And that, yes, there is a lot of strength in sweetness.

Get to know some florals that can alleviate this behavior that is so harmful to any type of coexistence.

Impatiens (Bach) – Keywords of this essence: impatience, irritation, intolerance. People who need this floral don’t know how to flow with events and thus waste subtle, loving and smooth exchanges with others. Beech (Bach) – Indicated for those who are hostile and always express themselves by criticizing or condemning others. They are always judging and do not know how to perceive the value of difference in others. Vervain (Bach) – For those who are always trying to convince others that their ideas and beliefs are the right ones. It brings the understanding that the world is full of people who think and act differently and that there must be respect and understanding for them. Cherry Plum (Bach) – Floral more than perfect for those who lose control and become destructive and insane.

Making your will

On the other side of the coin are those who don’t know how to place themselves and need to learn to impose limits. See also the list of some florals that are important for those who need to learn to recognize their own needs and impose themselves in a calm but firm way.

Centaury (Bach) – If you tend to take abuse from others, this is your remedy. In general, people like this have difficulty saying no, propensity to please and to have a conciliatory role in the social nucleus. Even so, it is essential to respect yourself and know how to say “no” when necessary. Black Cohosh (California) – People who need this essence have difficulty ending destructive relationships. It brings forth the courage to confront the situation instead of retreating in a moment of conflict. Healthy limits (Daughters of Gaia) – Excellent to help those who need to learn to better estimate their feelings and to establish energetic, emotional and physical limits in a healthy way. Trumpet Vine (California) – For those who don’t express themselves because they feel intimidated. In moments of nervousness and pressure, it helps in the elaboration of ideas and in a clearer verbal expression.

Where to find:

Rio de Janeiro – Quintessencia – (21) 2205-0505 http://www.quintessencia.com.br/

São Paulo – HNCristiano – (11) 2979-9868 http://www.hncristiano.com.br/portal/ Equilíbrio – (11) 3815-1386. http://www.equilibrio.com.br/

Belo Horizonte – Officinalis – (31) 3296-8917/3344-2922 – Chlorantha – (31) 3241-5212/3224-8533

Fortaleza – Farmaverde Pharmacy – (85) 3261-1566

Important note about choosing florals:

The self-medication of flower remedies seems quite easy. The person searches for keywords and chooses essences. You don’t need to identify with 100% of the characteristics of an essence to take it. They have no contraindications, but in order to make the right choice, it is necessary to know the floral systems and, at the same time, be able to clearly perceive personal issues or those of people close to you, which is not always simple. Therefore, a trained professional is always the best option.