8 things you should know before losing your virginity

One of the things you should know before losing your virginity, especially if you are a woman, is that having sex for the first time does not have to involve bleeding. In fact, many women do not experience bleeding and that doesn’t mean they didn’t do it right or that the hymen hasn’t broken.

It is important that you know that the hymen It is a very sensitive part of the female body and you may already have it broken since can be easily broken doing sports, cycling, etc. For this reason it is essential to differentiate the fact of bleeding from losing virginity since they are not 100% related.

Also, keep in mind that bleeding (if it appears) is usually very light, not very abundant. If the sexual act is performed well, with care and without being too rough, you will be able to enjoy the experience and your body will not suffer from it. If the bleeding is heavy and persistent, we recommend that you visit a gynecologist.

Another important aspect to keep in mind if you are a virgin is that having sex for the first time it doesn’t have to hurt. But we also want to make something clear: some discomfort you can feel, especially if you are a woman since the vaginal cavity is not used to penetration and, therefore, you are likely to feel a different sensation that may be somewhat annoying at first.

Our advice is to relax, try to enjoy the moment to the fullest and, thus, your vaginal area will be relaxed and penetration will be easier. Furthermore, it is essential that so that the act does not hurt, you go slowly, dedicate time to physical excitement and, thus, your body will naturally prepare for this moment. Don’t be in a hurry, be calm and you will have a lot of fun.

In this other unCOMO article we tell you how to avoid pain the first time.

Another thing you should know before losing your virginity is that you probably won’t experience climax, that is, you do not reach orgasm. The reason is obvious: nerves, inexperience and new sensations will make it difficult for you to relax as much as possible to reach orgasm.

But nothing happens: in the next sexual encounters you have, you will be able to relax and, little by little, you will be able to let yourself go and, thus, reach climax. It is important that you think that the goal of a sexual relationship is not orgasm in itself but to share that special moment with that other person, create a more special connection and achieve a more intense intimacy.

The orgasm is something that will come, you just don’t have to focus all your attention on it now because it can frustrate you. See sex for what it is: a exchange of love and passion with another person important to you.

And now we are going to ask you to do something that may be difficult for you: erase from your mind the sex you’ve seen in movies. These sexual relationships are not invented, they exist in reality, but you will NEVER experience them your first time. It is important that this is clear to you because idealizing the moment can make you have a negative and disappointed feeling about sex.

So we ask that you understand that losing your virginity is a special moment in a person’s life and, therefore, The most normal thing is for nerves to passyou do not know exactly what to play or how to do it and mistakes or clumsiness are made that are normal and common in inexperienced people.

It is for this reason that you have to know that the sex in movies is not what you will experience your first time but, over time, you can experience it and do it better! Time to time…

Another piece of advice we want to give you so that your first time is beautiful and special is that you don’t do it with just anyone, try to do it with a person you like. you feel comfortable and calm. Think that, as we have already said, losing your virginity will be a moment full of new situations for us and totally different sensations, therefore, it is much better to be next to a person who you trust and know who respects you in order to, thus, to be able to stop if you want to rest a little or to be able to communicate openly without reservations.

It is important that at this moment you can count on someone with whom you feel some type of bond, whether it is a partner or friend, so that you can share your thoughts and feelings without having to hide anything at all. Furthermore, it is a very nice experience and you will remember throughout your life so choose your bed partner to enjoy to the fullest.

Another thing you should know before losing your virginity is that for the experience to be satisfactory you need to be calm and relaxed because, otherwise, you will experience a somewhat uncomfortable, clumsy moment that you will not feel comfortable with. . It is for this reason that we recommend that you search A peaceful place in which you can make love without interruptions and without a time limit; Having time to connect, to caress and be intimate is essential, especially the first time.

In addition to this, from unCOMO we want to remember that it is essential use condom your first time because there is a risk of pregnancy as well as getting infected with STDs (sexually transmitted diseases). Put on protection and you will be 100% calm and prepared for this moment.

It is also important that, before deciding to take this big step, Know your body and your sexuality. Masturbating and caressing yourself is essential to know what you like and, in addition, you will be able to explore your body and know all the points of your genital anatomy.

Therefore, don’t deprive yourself of self-exploration and masturbate, look at your genitals in the mirror and know what your body is like. This is a basic step to prepare yourself for a sexual encounter and know what you are like and what you like.

And finally, another of the 8 things you should know before losing your virginity is that penetration is not the protagonist of the evening. Not now, not never. Sex is enjoyed with the whole body and with multiple forms of stimulation: kisses, caresses, whispers, oral sex, masturbation and, yes, also penetration. But we have to stop thinking that the only important thing in bed is to penetrate because that is NOT the case, not at all.

In fact, the vast majority of people would not need penetration to have an orgasm, with foreplay they can easily reach climax. The Penetration is another way to have sex but it is not the only one So if you don’t feel ready for it, try everything else and have a great time exploring and playing with your bodies.

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