8 erotic fantasies that will boost your self-confidence

It can include something else bold, like a ménage for three (threesome) paraphernalia Or just candles and oils🇧🇷 THE erotic fantasy it’s a way to put your imagination at the service of sex, with the aim of trying out new things and getting pleasure.

“It is a practice that is in people’s imagination and that produces real excitement”, explains gynecologist and sexologist Jaqueline Brendler, from Porto Alegre. Putting it into action requires willingness and a dose of courage. Sometimes it’s planned, but the surprise factor can make it even more exciting. In others, only desire filled with imagination is enough to warm up a date.

“Talking to your partner about your fantasies helps the relationship”, recommends the gynecologist and sexologist Amaury Mendes Junior, from Rio de Janeiro. Inspiration can come from everything you hear or see – not just movies and erotic stories. Get inspired by the following stories to spice up your life.

Try erotic games

LUCIANA GUEDES🇧🇷 44 years old, holistic therapist

“I had a very low libido for a while and I decided to do a practice with my husband called Empire of the senses🇧🇷 I’ve put together a series of creams, oils and fabrics of various textures to awaken sensations in your body. When he got home from work, he took a shower; on leaving, I asked him not to get dressed and put a blindfold on his eyes. He asked what was going to happen and I said I just had to enjoy it. He immediately got into the mood. I passed the objects over his skin gently, without rushing and without letting him touch me.🇧🇷 It was very exciting! I was overwhelmed by my excitement at seeing his excitement. Only when things got really hot did he grab me and then there was release for all kinds of affection. It went really well.”

Transit in the work environment

TELMA*, 43 years old, librarian

“The idea of ​​having sex at work seemed exhilarating and crossed my mind at times, but I didn’t plan or make any effort to fulfill that desire. Until I met one client who, in the first handshake, instigated all my senses. I realized that it was reciprocal. Since then, he started to visit me in the library and require frequent consultations, many for no reason. After so many greetings, handshakes and hugs, physical contact became commonplace. Until one day, in a farewell, she rolled a hot, feverish kiss. I didn’t think twice: I turned off the light and locked the room door.🇧🇷 There were precious minutes of caresses. It was worth it!”

Threesome without commitment

RENATA*🇧🇷 36 years old, designer

“I went clubbing with a friend I was seeing and I met another one I had already been in a relationship with. We started drinking the three and got carried away. We left there and went to the house of a friend who was traveling and had left the key with me. The three of us lay down on the couch, just talking. Until I kissed one, then the other🇧🇷 And the thing was rolling, slowly and in a very pleasant way, no porn mood🇧🇷 I remember, at some point, having oral sex in one while the other me penetrated – but I found kinda laborious (laughs). So I fucked one and then the other🇧🇷 No fuss. It was a very good atmosphere of friends having fun. We sleep with a spoon, the three of us🇧🇷

Casual meeting by appointment (even to finish)

Suzana*🇧🇷 36 years old, law student

“I’ve always been very straight-laced and follower of orders, but I wanted to experience a certain recklessness in my sexual life. I wanted to know how it was have sex with someone without knowing much about the person🇧🇷 And I’ve been doing that using apps like Tinder🇧🇷 I set up a date with a guy I’d only exchanged a few messages with. Then I said that my goal was just to have sex. I knew he had a pastry shop. And only! We met at apartment where I would move🇧🇷 Only the bed had been delivered – that very day, in fact. He couldn’t spend more than an hour there because he had an appointment. So we made this period yield a lot. He took soda from the pastry shop. His hair smelled like pastel. We beautifully debuted the new bed.🇧🇷

Take the risk of being found out

Juliana*🇧🇷 36 years old, lawyer

“I had a boyfriend with whom there was a lot of chemistry. With him, I fulfilled several fantasies of having sex in different places, like in the steam room of an inn, in car hood… It was all very exciting and new to me, who had had very little sexual experience so far. One day, during a tour, we were following a group, but we were falling behind. Until he pulled me over and we had sex right there, under a tree. Was fast. Another time, it happened when we weren’t even dating anymore. In fact, we had fought and we weren’t even speaking. on one Carnival in Salvador, we meet. At the end of the block, he took me by the arm and took me to his hotel, nearby. we had sex in reception bathroom🇧🇷 We didn’t exchange a single word and it was intense. I left happily ever after.”

Surrender without fear to the fantasy of the other

JOANA*🇧🇷 29 years old, marketing manager

“I came back from a trip and my girlfriend suggested that I go straight from the airport to her house🇧🇷 In the taxi, I thought she would be waiting for me in pajamas with a glass of wine. But, in the elevator, I saw writing on the mirror with Red lipstick: ‘Follow my orders’. I suspected, but I wasn’t sure it was her thing. THE door was ajar🇧🇷 I went in and saw another message: ‘Take off all clothes and follow the candles’. The room was beautiful, with lots of flowers and a path of candles that led to the bathroom. I doubted no more. I left my clothes on the floor and went. The bathtub was full of foam.🇧🇷 And she was wearing amazing lingerie and holding a glass of wine. In a soft voice, she told me to come in. I got one wonderful erotic massage, with the right to several sex toys. The fantasy was hers and I loved going on board with her.”

Explore breathtaking scenarios

ANITA*🇧🇷 34 years old, chef

🇧🇷surprise sex and in unusual places has long attracted me. I live in São Paulo, but I used to go back to my parents’ house, in the countryside, quite often. There, I had a friend I went out with sometimes. When my brother’s birthday barbecue was over, somewhere late at night, he parked the car in the middle of a cornfield🇧🇷 It was dark and he left the car light on. We had sex on top of the hood🇧🇷 It was all the more exciting for the mood of terror that every cornfield carries. I thought it was amazing! On another occasion, we went to the church gazebo, in the highest part of the city, where there was never anyone. We had sex right there.”

Having sex with a stranger

LOUIS*🇧🇷 38 years old, producer and writer

“I met him at a Brazil game. Was world Cup🇧🇷 We were at a bar in Madrid and our eyes met. I was already hooked, or rather determined to hook. At that moment, I decided that I would do something that I had never done and that I really wanted to do: have sex with a stranger. When we greeted each other, it was as if the world went into slow motion: I noticed the touch of his hands, firm, asking for intimacy. We were talking and the table, full of people, was suddenly empty. I accepted the invitation to have another glass of wine. We talked some more, until I felt the air of your breath on my neck and ear🇧🇷 Then, finally, his lips touched mine. What a kiss! We ended the night at his apartment. At each step of the stairs, we exchanged new caresses, feeling both bodies heating up. We communicated in a portunhol delicious, but the truth is that words were not necessary to seal what came after: desire, surrender, a night of love.”

*Names changed at the request of the interviewees

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