7 reasons why he leaves you on watch and doesn’t respond to your messages –

They met, went out and laughed for hours. The chemistry was undeniable! But… then what happens? Why does he leave you on sight and not answer your WhatsApp or Facebook Messenger messages? It can be one of the most frustrating things in the world when the guy you like drops you off.

Plus, we all always wonder if we should continue writing and demanding attention, or if doing so would make us seem too desperate. Finally we know that we must give ourselves our place.

But there is also the possibility that he does not answer your messages for some reason that has nothing to do with you. Not necessarily bad.

1. He’s busy

Believe us. This is the main reason why a man doesn’t answer your messages. Normally, men prioritize what they have to do at work over their social life.

Maybe you skimmed your messages. But if none of them seemed urgent, chances are something like, “Oh, I have to respond to several messages, I’ll take care of that when I get off work” went through his head.

2. He has nothing to say

Contrary to what you may (or want to think) some men are truly people of few words. A yes, a no, or some other simple and functional answer is more than enough for them.

If you have perhaps just sent him your childhood summarized in three pages, rest assured that it will not make sense to many men to do the same thing again.

It’s not that they don’t consider your contribution valuable. It’s just that they themselves don’t find it very stimulating to talk for hours and hours about themselves via text.

3. Men focus on oneone thing at a time

Remember that even though you manage to prepare food, do homework, and text him at the same time, many guys find it impossible to concentrate on more than one task at a time.

So if the object of your desire is characterized by being someone with many occupations, rest assured that he will give himself a space to respond to you, but when he can focus only on that.

Don’t worry and try not to despair. These types of guys can take up to half a day or more to respond. But they respond.

4. You are not saying anything interesting

And maybe, just maybe, the problem is you. Have you analyzed the type of conversation you are sending him? Are you really saying something important?

If your conversation revolves around the pants you bought yesterday or the weather that he obviously also has to endure, he will most likely skip answering just to avoid you continuing to send him useless texts.

Try to make your conversation less superficial so you can begin to gain their attention.

5. He doesn’t feel like texting you

Just as sometimes you simply don’t feel like dressing up, or going out, or flirting, sometimes men go through periods of communication drought.

These periods can be particularly frustrating for women, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t interested. They just don’t have anything to say, and even if they did, they don’t feel like doing it.

If this is the case, give your guy some space and let him start contact again once he returns to his usual mood.

6. You consider that you are already secure in the relationship and that it is no longer necessary

If the guy thinks that he already has you very safe, or you are already dating him in a more formal relationship, consider that maybe he no longer finds much sense in talking to you by text day and night.

It may sound a little cruel, but that’s how male psychology often works. So if you see a very drastic change between when you were first dating and now that you are in a relationship, you could confront him and indicate that you still need attention and communication.

7. He doesn’t like you

And finally we come to the least pleasant part of this article. But it is necessary that we cover this possibility since it is possibly the most viable.

When a man likes you, you usually get all the attention and time you want from him, unless he is very absent-minded or very shy.

This can happen, of course, but if a man doesn’t answer your messages, maybe it’s because he doesn’t really like you or he’s not interested in establishing an emotional connection with you. But you don’t have to be traumatized about it.

First of all, not everyone has to like us.

Secondly, this website is full of articles with advice to help you go from “he doesn’t like me” to “I’m crazy about him.”

And thirdly, if you flood a guy who has no particular interest in you with messages, the only thing you will achieve is create a frank dislike.

So take it easy, there are plenty of fish in the water.

Has this situation ever happened to you? How have you handled it? It would be incredible if you left us your comments.

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