5 signs of what a serious relationship is and that it has a future – Methods for Flirting

Almost all relationships, after the stage where “everything is perfect”, go through a period of testing.

This period is marked by the insecurity that begins to arise between both people, questioning whether at this point they feel the same about each other or if something has changed in the time they have been in a relationship.

This can be exciting, but also stormy. It all depends on the couple. You are, in some way, rediscovering your partner, learning more about that special person, falling in love again or raising your guard in some points that cause you more insecurity than others.

You may start to wonder if it is still okay to use the titles “boyfriend” or “girlfriend,” you start to wonder which of you will close your online dating account, and when you will start to pick up some habits that make this a relationship; like holding hands or using nicknames in public.

However, there are certain points that can assure you of the seriousness of the matter. Even though things may seem a little blurry for now, you should be sure to talk to your partner about a more exclusive relationship, moving in together, or if there are any thoughts about a future marriage.

Of course, if a formal discussion does not seem like the best way to find out what is bothering you, there are slight and subtle signs that you can look for to know if all of this is on the right track and is something serious.

The worst thing you can do is panic and start claiming things you’re not really sure about. It is preferable to stay calm and go step by step, do not put pressure on yourself or your partner. This could lead to major conflicts.

1.- Public displays of affection

Don’t underestimate public displays of affection. This goes beyond a pinch on the butt while in a public place.

The relationship begins to be serious as soon as the displays of affection that you make between you are in front of a significant person. Whether they are your parents or work or study colleagues. You don’t have to be sorry for it.

It is when you are not worried about mentioning each other on social networks, clarifying that you are a couple and adding photos of you on your Instagram or Facebook.

But if they are one of those who do not use social networks much, this sign can be recognized when when introducing themselves to someone, they use the term “girlfriend” or “boyfriend”, letting their relationship become the center of attention.

Obviously, holding hands or kissing in public also counts as an obvious display of affection that you should not overlook.

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2.- That they don’t care about anything

You can tell that the relationship is serious when that person travels the miles necessary to see you and make you happy. Partly that shows that he cares but also that he wants to see you and spend time with you.

This doesn’t mean that he has to buy you things, but that he knows what you want or what you like. Usually when you care about each other, you have some gestures between you. You take care of that person as if they were you.

Bringing food or simply buying both movie tickets is a clear gesture that you care that you both have what you need and that you are assured that you will be together. Simply asking him how his day was is a way to show support and that you care about what happens to him.

3.- Trust

One of the most important signs is reflected when your partner tells you that he loves you and that you are the only person in his life. In those moments, you shouldn’t hear the little voice in the back of your head asking, “Really?”

You also shouldn’t turn to look at your partner out of the corner of your eye hoping that they don’t see anyone else or are messaging one of their exes.

You must be confident; trusting that he is not talking to any unknown “friend”, or worrying when you leave one day at night.

If the relationship is real, you don’t need to check his phone, delete messages or tell any lies. A strong relationship is created by being honest on both sides.

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4.- Part of your world

It is important to have a shared world with your partner. It is an intimate place where you keep your private jokes or some references that only you understand.

It is also important that you spend time separately, following your own interests but without forgetting that this is a serious relationship. Even so, the importance of spending time together is not minor. That time is what guarantees the strength of the relationship and thus makes your partner part of your world.

This also includes your partner’s parents, friends. Invite your partner to a family meal or to go out with your friends where you can exchange interests and hobbies.

All these points lead to including the relationship in your daily life and this is a clear point of the seriousness of the matter.

5.- Being with your partner is being at home

Maya Angelou once explained: “I have realized that others will forget what you told them, maybe they will also forget what you did. What they will never forget is how you made them feel. This saying is true in relationships too.

Feelings are what connect you and that is why being with that person is like being at home. You feel safe, comfortable and relaxed.

When you feel safe sleeping, knowing that that person is next to you. You could say that you wouldn’t want to be with anyone else and if you are together everything is better.

If your partner represents your world and your home for you, you can be sure that it is a serious relationship.

We can say that for a relationship to be serious in an obvious way, you should not feel embarrassed in any way when your partner is around. There is nothing wrong with a kiss or a caress. Don’t be afraid to tell the closest people in your life.

An honest relationship is a serious relationship. Finally, remember that your actions define what you think. Treat others how you want to be treated. And if the relationship you’re in right now is going towards something really serious, you’ll know right away.

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