18 types of men who are not worth it –

Have you ever gotten excited and then ended up being ignored? Or, worse: do they give you vague, unclear answers to every important question you ask?

Make sure your dates aren’t any of these 18 types of men who aren’t worth it and you’ll be able to keep faith in true love:

1. He who doesn’t know how he feels

This type of man is one of the worst if you are looking to get into a long-term relationship. He doesn’t know what he feels, he isn’t sure about the future, he isn’t clear if he wants a stable relationship…

He will simply always tell you “let’s try it and see what happens.” Friend, this is not going to change the way you see things. He is not interested in anything serious. With these types of men you will only waste your time.

2. The one who does not want to use protection

Let’s make something clear: your excuses of “it feels better without a condom” or “trust me, I have nothing” are not enough to have unprotected sex.

Doing it this way will only put you in danger. From pregnancy to a sexually transmitted disease… and I’m sure they’re not things you want to deal with if you’re not a formal couple. Think about everything it entails.

3. The one who is always bankrupt

I am in favor of equity. You can divide the bills, but if you are the one who always pays, because he never has money or conveniently “keeps” his wallet in his other pants, it is simply stinginess.

If every time you are the one who pays everything for both of you, you are not in a healthy relationship; That’s not a date. She is using you and you need to open your eyes.

4. The one who tricks you into thinking he cares about you, right before you find out about his “other” girlfriend

This type of man is simply inconsiderate of the feelings of others. If you find out that he is dating another girl, what guarantees that there aren’t more? Are you seriously going to believe his excuses?

If he didn’t want to be exclusive with you, he should have warned you from the beginning. But finding out out of nowhere that you are not the only one hurts… a lot! These types of men, in my opinion, are one of the worst and simply not worth it.

5. The “wizard”: appears and disappears from your life without explanation and as if nothing happened

It is understandable that he does not answer some messages, but… that he disappears for several days without giving you any explanation and then appears as if nothing had happened? No, okay! These types of men will only waste your time.

You can’t have a stable relationship with someone who is not constantly in your daily life. Get him out of your life the first time he disappears without explanation or apparent reason. It’s not worth justifying it. You will only hurt yourself.

6. The selfish

Sharing is a skill you learn when you are in preschool. If you notice that he is not reciprocal in any way, run away from him as far as you can!

These types of men are not worth it. It’s not what you want in a relationship. He is not capable of giving the love you deserve and that at some point is going to hurt you a lot.

7. The busy one: can never take calls, only text messages

This type of men usually generates two doubts: do they need time to prepare each response? What is your problem when making a phone call, if it is the same as talking in person?

If you can’t talk to him on the phone, much less will you be able to have a stable relationship. It’s not a matter of preference, but it is a matter of a little reasoning.

8. The one who is not able to plan a date

And if he does, on the day of the appointment he may cancel or leave you waiting, which is much worse. Men of this type shy away from commitment and, when they feel pressured, they are capable of reacting in a bad way.

You may always come up with the excuse that a friend needed it, but… how many times are you going to accept this situation? If your friend needs it so much, let him start going out with him.

9. The “party animal”: always posts photos with women in clubs and bottle services

Maybe it’s normal for him to post some photos with women, but do all his photos have to be in nightclubs wasting money on alcohol and women? This is obviously not what you want for a serious partner.

Why would you want to date a man who is clearly a womanizer?

10. The one who is over 30 and is still terrified by the idea of ​​commitment

It is understandable that if you are in your twenties you are somewhat afraid of committing and all the responsibilities that entails; especially, for the economic part when it is not yet very stable.

But if you are over 30 you are already a full-fledged adult who must know what you want, where you are going and put aside the attitude of a teenager afraid of the word commitment. These types of men will only waste your time. There is nothing that will change his mind.

11. The guy you know won’t commit, but is so cute you keep dating him

It’s the worst on the entire list, because you know you’re consciously jumping into the void. Maybe he’s handsome, has the financial stability you’re looking for, and makes you feel special from time to time; but it’s not what you’re really wanting in a partner.

If you appreciate yourself a little, you should take courage and leave it. Sooner or later you will regret not doing it, since obviously what you are looking for is a long-term, stable relationship and for the commitment to be mutual.

12. The manipulator and liar

Not boyfriend material. He’s jealous, you’ve caught him lying to you so you don’t go out with your friends, he makes you feel bad for being happy when you’re not together… He’s just one of those men who aren’t worth it.

He will hurt you every chance he gets; It is his way of manipulating and always having you close. He will seek to lower your self-esteem in any way, his attitude is passive-aggressive. That guy is one of the most dangerous on the list.

13. The one who is never available for your plans

First of all, if he cancels on you for an emergency once, it’s understandable; But if he does it every time they agree to go out, what’s the point? For these types of men, anything is more important than their commitment to you.

It’s not that he doesn’t want to commit, it’s that he’s not interested. If he did, he would find a way to share with you, even if it is 5 minutes in his day. You can also identify him because he doesn’t return your calls and takes a long time to respond to a text message.

14. The one who only cares about getting you to bed

He’s sweet, loving, concerned, attentive, but only because he wants to take you to bed. The moment he reveals his intentions and you tell him that you don’t want to, that you prefer to wait to get to know him better, two things happen: he disappears or he treats you badly.

If it’s the first, he’s doing you a favor. But if it is the second, you will notice how from Prince Charming he becomes an ogre with you. Do not give in to his manipulation and stay away from him. A man who only cares about the sexual part is not a good life partner.

15. The one who is over 30 and still lives with his colleagues

If you’re over 30 you should have already figured out how to make enough money to have your own space. Do you want to live with a guy who lives with several roommates?

You wouldn’t have privacy, you wouldn’t be able to do what you wanted or when you wanted. I highly doubt that’s what you want for your future. So run away from these types of men.

16. The fanatic: he is obsessed with his favorite sports team or some series

We all have something we are addicted to, but… do you really have to obsess over it to the point that your life plans revolve around it? If he is addicted to a sport, you will always see him wearing t-shirts of that style and he will not miss a game.

He may even cancel your date to watch the game. If it’s a series or movie, I assure you that he will be offended that you don’t know everything about it. He may try to persuade you to join his world, but it will hardly work.

17. The one who gives you compliments that don’t ring true

It sounds complicated, but let me explain with an example: it tells you that in your Instagram photos you look very pretty with all those filters. Now do you understand a little more what I mean? It’s a compliment disguised as a criticism.

What’s the point of being with a man who isn’t completely honest? Just as he tells you half-truths about your appearance or a compliment, he can leave out important things.

18. The one who is serious about commitment until you mention that word

So he thinks you’re the one, but every time you mention the word commitment he says you’re going “too fast,” that you’re “speeding things up,” or that you’re putting pressure on him? These types of men are not really interested in commitment.

He only tells you what you want to hear, he is capable of saying that he wants to get married and stay without setting a date just to make you happy and not mention the subject. If he can’t talk about it, how do you expect him to commit?

How do I know if I’m in the right relationship?

Before you decide what to do, you need to know about the crucial moment when a relationship tells you whether you will be happily ever after or whether you should walk away.

If at any point he starts to lose interest, doesn’t call you, closes himself off emotionally, cares less about you… if there is no reason for his change of attitude and what you are looking for is a long and beautiful relationship, you should walk away.

Now you know the 18 types of men who are not worth it. It’s a safe bet that you will now choose to be with a guy who truly deserves you.

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