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15 Good Conduct Tips for a More Pleasant Coexistence in Society

There are several rules of conduct enshrined in various memorandums, laws and codes, such as: not using the elevator in case of fire or not entering the subway with filthy clothes that could soil other passengers. But nowhere is it written that you shouldn’t talk loudly on the bus, scold children on the street, or pee in the nearest bush when you need to.

We, from incredible.clubwe have listed 15 unwritten rules of good conduct, the observance of which, in our opinion, makes life in society more comfortable for everyone.

Avoid imposing non-existent rules in places intended for another audience

The birth of a child is undoubtedly an important event in the life of a family. However, for some reason, some people forget that this is an event for their family, and not for all of humanity. It is necessary to understand that not all public spaces will be exclusive to children. And if the park is intended for animals, it will remain so, even if the little ones want to play there.

Try not to disturb others with music or loud conversations.

Too loud music, as well as conversations on personal (and even not entirely personal) matters at a high level, are unlikely to be appreciated by others around. Therefore, headphones and a suitable voice volume for talking on the street and in public places is what we all need.

Withhold the judgments without knowing the reasons

Be more careful walking among other people

We often come across someone who, even in the midst of a crowd of passers-by, walks swinging his umbrella from side to side, and sometimes even carries it horizontally. This can not only disrupt others around you, but harm them in some way.

Save unsolicited advice

Firstly, it is simply inappropriate to give unsolicited advice, especially on sensitive and purely personal topics such as building relationships or having a child. Secondly, everyone has the right to decide how he is going to build his life and, if he needs advice, he will ask for it himself.

Avoid scolding children in public

Psychologists warn that constant punishment of a child in public places can later lead to him feeling uncomfortable being around strangers, and may feel guilty and even humiliated. And, let’s be real, we ourselves are not very comfortable, psychologically, when someone is scolding a child in the street.

Do not occupy several seats in public transport, injuring other passengers

The unreasonable way some men sit with their legs too far apart is called menspreding. Basically, those who like to sprawl their legs across multiple seats, preventing other people from sitting down, are being excessively rude.

Don’t be rude to attendants

Address the person exactly as they introduced themselves.

When you ask someone what to call him, he will tell you exactly what he prefers. Therefore, it is in good form to address her in the way you asked her or as she initially introduced herself.

Think not only of yourself, but also of the people around you.

As wonderful as a perfume is, it may not be to everyone’s liking. In a tight space, excess can be a problem, even for those who like the fragrance. Not to mention the fact that someone could be allergic. Moderation in the use of perfume definitely didn’t hurt anyone.

Don’t take the kids to “pee in the bushes”

Let’s be honest, the fact that a child is very small does not eliminate the need to take him to the bathroom. And considering it unacceptable for an adult to relieve himself in the bushes, but acceptable for a child to do the same, seems irrational.

Do not touch someone else’s cell phone without permission.

When someone is showing a photo on their mobile phone, there is no need to move the gallery in all directions. If the person wants to show you other photographs, he will do it himself or give you permission.

Avoid slang or complicated terms with people who don’t understand them

If we want to be understood, and this is the purpose of communication, we need to speak in a language that is understandable to the interlocutor. For example, an elderly person is unlikely to understand what “cringe” is, so it is more polite if we just say “something shameful”.

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As in the illustration above, it would be much simpler for the young specialist to simply say that he would send private messages to random users, in order to meet the deadline of the work.

Preferably, ask the person on the call if they are available to talk.

The seemingly routine question asking whether the other person is available to talk at that moment is often ignored. And when someone doesn’t even ask the question and starts talking right away, without pausing for the other to talk, it’s unpleasant to say the least.

Respect personal boundaries

We sincerely believe that well-educated people do not discuss changes in the appearance or personal life of others, at least not in front of you. It’s not pleasant to participate in a meeting where you only hear criticism instead of having a healthy chat.

What other rules of good conduct and coexistence would you add to our list?

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