Why do Scorpio men withdraw and seem distant?

Kris is a Scorpio Sun with a Capricorn Moon and Cancer Ascendant.

A Guide to Your Scorpio Love Interest

This article provides a crash course on your crush. We will cover:

Sun Sign Basics Shared Personality Traits and How They Manifest in Romance Top Reasons He’s Off the Net and Ignoring Your Texts Explanations for his on-and-off behavior and sudden explosions A look at character-by-character compatibility Important tips for cultivating a healthy relationship

The basics

Scorpio sun signs are born directly between Libra and Sagittarius from October 23rd to November 21st. Their element is water, meaning they navigate the world through their emotions. Her solid, feminine energy can come off as stubborn and reserved, but don’t mistake her often quiet and secretive nature for passivity! Scorpios are driven to action by their ruling planets, Mars and Pluto. These planets rule war, aggression, sexuality and profound changes. This gives Scorpio natives an innate urge to seek personal growth at a soul level.

Common personality traits of a Scorpio lover

The whole picture

While your crush might be a Scorpio Sun, their personality might also be influenced by their Rising, Moon, and Venus signs. Take a look at his complete birth chart for a more thorough understanding.

5 Reasons Why a Scorpio Man Retires

I’ve found that a Scorpio’s withdrawal is usually due to one of five causes (although there may be more that I haven’t discovered yet):

1. He is confused.

He finds himself in a situation where he has mixed feelings and acts aloof until he settles it in his heart.

2. He is angry.

He’s royally pissed off and chose to spare you his vengeful tongue instead of hitting. His withdrawal is to let you know he’s upset and possibly punish you by ignoring your texts (manipulative, but it happens).

3. He is injured.

Feeling burned or embarrassed, he has withdrawn to tend his wounds. In my opinion, we Scorpios take spontaneous comments a bit too personally. When offended, he will attempt to quietly go about his usual routine to deal with it. I do, and I can tell you that when I purposely create space and someone asks me what’s going on, it really annoys me. If they keep asking, I’ll either hit it off because I want them to walk away without explaining how upset I am, or I’ll pretend like I’m just not comfortable.

4. He’s just being himself.

Maybe he’s just enjoying his alone time, contemplating the meaning of life, or throwing himself into his passion projects. I think when he pulls away like that, ruling out options one, two, and three, that says a lot about his confidence in the relationship. It tells me he thinks the relationship is strong enough that he doesn’t have to worry about putting on a show and being talkative every day. Some people might take this for granted, but I guess all I can say is if this bothers you, talk about it. However, I cannot guarantee that this will change.

5. He breaks up with you.

If he stops communicating entirely, he may have decided to cut all the strings and end it. In other words, he creates space to prepare for departure. I hope this isn’t the case with anyone because it says volumes about his lack of sympathy for you when he’s not ready to give you closure.

Does he ever show interest?

Does he seem very interested in you and your plans – almost like a stalker – but only to go off the net completely before he comes back at you as strongly as before? From my experience (both as a Scorpio and as someone who has dated several Scorpio men), I will explain their quirky behavior as best I can.

You must understand that Scorpios . are intensive. When they are focused, it is with a single-minded obsession. So when he thinks about you, it’s all about you. And if he isn’t, he isn’t. Without getting into why he’s retiring in the first place (more on that later), this is the best explanation I can give for the stalker-to-stranger extremes.

There will be times when he falls somewhere between the extremes, but that happens less often than other signs. These incidents usually happen when he’s trying to exert himself, because he knows you probably don’t understand his intensity, or because he’s genuinely curious about something you mentioned.

The best advice I can give here is to communicate. He might not say much, but I guarantee he’s listening. tell him how you feel If they match you, your Scorpio will be upset that you are upset. At least he will reassure you that you are not the problem.

If you’re not sure about him, don’t put up with his games. In other words, if you can’t tell which of the first four reasons is the reason for their withdrawal, then you really don’t know yourself well enough to play mind games and expect them to solve the problem. Tell him. If he still doesn’t answer, he’s not worth your time anyway.

Why is he suddenly snapping out of nowhere?

It may seem like everything is fine when your Scorpio suddenly turns on you and you feel offended for no reason. He can’t expect you to read his mind, but he might be feeling something like this – and probably has for quite some time.

Imagine you have a dog. Now imagine you are a small child who has just discovered the dog’s tail and is starting to playfully pull on it. The dog loves you, understands that you don’t know any better and tolerates your curious tugs. A few years later, you accidentally step on the dog’s tail. All is forgiven; The dog can tell the difference between an intentionally placed foot and an accidental injury. But now you’re older and so confident in his loyalty that you constantly yank his tail to show your friends how much he loves you. But if the dog finally turned around and then bit you, would you think just because it hadn’t done it before that it came out of nowhere?

I can guarantee you one thing: a scorpion is waiting. They wait until they feel they have sufficient justification and then strike out. Because they know their emotions are so much stronger than others’, they are more tolerant than most people. They have to do it so they don’t feel guilty about taking revenge. But when they finally strike, they do so in brilliant form. At this point, it’s not about you understanding what he’s angry or hurt about. It’s about you feeling small and down and huddled in a corner surrounded by your guilt. And if you don’t remember the first time you tugged his tail because his reaction wasn’t memorable, well, that’s not his problem.

My point is that you might think it came out of nowhere, but he kept track and something made the difference. Just because he doesn’t tell you when you’ve hurt or upset him doesn’t mean you haven’t.

Character-by-character compatibility at a glance

What determines compatibility?

In astrology, there are several complex methods of determining compatibility across sun signs. However, remember that astrology should be used as a tool to better understand your partner and your unique dynamic, not to define the relationship and its outcome. Any character can date any character; However, studying synastry can help identify particular strengths and challenges in each partnership.

Tips for a healthy relationship with a Scorpio

The following are the main pillars of any strong relationship, but these may require extra attention when dating a Scorpio.

Trust: Most of Scorpio’s negative behaviors stem from fear of rejection, betrayal, or abandonment. When they feel safe with their partner, they are likely not only to open up, but to bring their best qualities to the relationship.
Communication: If he doesn’t respond or gives vague answers, try to maintain an assertive communication style—not aggressive or passive-aggressive. Be clear and gentle with your questions and…