Why are there people who even love each other don’t stay together?

It’s not enough to love to be assured that happy endings will come. Love requires care, attention, surrender and renunciation, which not everyone is willing to offer. Daily coexistence is full of traps and weariness that increase, shuffling the feelings of those who are immersed in the sharing of lives.

When we launch ourselves to meet the other, we will have to bring into our lives everything he brings, both what satisfies us and what we dislike. There is nothing that the passage of time does not unmask, does not bring to light, does not make clear.

Daily coexistence ends up forcing us to face everything we are, our best and worst, as well as the best and worst of the person next to us. If one does not pay attention to the desires and needs of the other, we will end up distancing ourselves more and more from the ones we love. Love is exchange, it’s going back, it’s giving and receiving, that is, it won’t stay where it doesn’t find a sincere counterpart, a return of looks, touches, dreams.

That’s why many people break up, even though they still love each other. They didn’t stop loving each other, but they stopped paying attention to the eyes of those who were right there next to them, they stopped building those crazy dreams, but which are essential for the continuity of desire for each other. And so they lost themselves and each other.

Therefore, it is necessary that we are stronger than the hardness of everyday life, which deconstructs our dreams and diverts us from our search for happiness with those we love. It’s sad that we can’t walk hand in hand with the ones we love, but even sadder is to see the love of our lives walk away because of everything we failed to do.

Marcel Camargo