When a woman is tired

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Some call us crazy, others sticky, others boring, others use the old phrase: “you suffocate me”. It’s friends, being a passionate, concerned woman who watches over the relationship is not easy. Finding a man who understands us is in short supply in the market.

We go as far as we can. People insist. He hits the wall, suffers, cries, gives a thousand chances, runs after, tolerates certain things and goes deep. We put up with being called a muggle, an idiot, we even hear that we like to suffer and that we don’t want to be happy. We go as far as we can, we do everything possible and the impossible not to see a story with whom we love shipwreck. We pay dearly for insisting so much and wasting so much time. But one hour, rowing alone, gets tired. Oh get tired. Then it’s time to throw the oar and jump off the boat.

We take care, we watch over, we cry, we declare ourselves, we care, we respect, understand, explain and make it happen. But then when we get tired, we stop doing all that. Let’s belittle, let’s not worry, let’s go away, let’s change course. Then my friend, when we don’t act “crazy”, we unglue, we stop suffocating, we stop worrying about our “friends” and we start to pretend “dementia”, game over. Ended. We don’t want any more. And I tell you: When a woman gets tired, there is no flower, candy or declaration that makes her change her mind.

When a woman wants something, she wants it and that’s it. She changes her hair color, cuts it, buys clothes, changes her style and especially her attitude. Stop insisting on what is little for her and go after something better. Why insist on crumbs, if she can have a whole loaf of bread?! We are not just meat. We have heart, soul, feeling. What is not reciprocal is not worthy of investment.

Then you value your wife who is so “difficult to deal with”. Friend, woman you find it easy. It’s hard to find the one you can keep in your body, soul, feeling and heart.

Giovanna Sabrine