What does it mean to dream about people? |

Dreaming of people – whether known, unknown, living, dead or famous – is something common and frequent in almost all dreams. Just as each component of the dream (scenery, object, animal, action) portrays the dreamer, it is no different about who we dream about. However, there are some details that can help us a lot to understand the meanings of each specific dreamed person.

The first of them – and the most complex – is divided into two parts, each of which deserves a different type of questioning:

1 – If the dream is with a known person (whether famous, from our daily life or already deceased)

This first part can be better understood with the help of the following questions: What is the most remarkable phase that this person has gone through in his life or is going through? What has she lived or is going through that caught (or draws) her a lot of attention? Was this person fired? Divorced? Was it approved in a contest? Did you have a child? Did you get over a loss? Changed course or job?

So, when this person appears in our dreams, it tends to represent this type of situation or attitude that we are experiencing and that are similar to theirs. Let’s take an example. A man dreamed of an acquaintance of his. Recently, in real life, this woman went through the experience of motherhood, having a child. And it was something so intense in her life that it generated a significant change in her behavior towards life, such as acquiring healthier eating habits. This could mean that the fact that the man dreamed of her indicates his potential to create something remarkable (such as a new professional, creative or artistic project, “as if it were” the son she generated) or to start a new life. phase in which you will take better care of your food.

Remember, dream language is based on “as it were”. That is, having dreamed of this acquaintance, it is as if the man adopted attitudes similar to those of the person in situations that may or may not be identical to those that he has lived or is experiencing. If it’s positive attitudes, great, keep developing and expressing them. If they are negative, be careful not to act like that person negatively acted.

2 – You also need to ask yourself

What characteristics of this person are you most interested in? What do you most admire about her? What annoys and annoys you the most about your appearance, style and personality?

Therefore, if you dream about the former coach of the Brazilian national team, Luís Felipe Scolari, for example, you need to ask yourself which qualities and defects in his personality that cause the most admiration and irritation in you. It doesn’t matter if what you consider positive or negative about his way of being is real, true or publicized in the media. Ideally, you simply base yourself on what you see, notice and feel about that person.

And, after that, the ideal is to notice if you are not in a phase where you need to be careful not to reproduce these defects in your daily life. And how have you sought to develop and express in your day to day what is admirable in the dreamed person.

dream of acquaintances

The second detail about dreaming about people revolves around reflection on our relationship, in real life, with the person who appeared in our dream. Of course, this only applies if the person is known to us. In this case, the act of dreaming may be showing what adjustments need to be made in the relationship we have with a certain person.

In this case, the act of dreaming may be showing what adjustments need to be made in the relationship we have with a certain person.

If it’s someone you have some sort of bond with, notice how you interacted in the dream. Let’s assume that, in the dream, this person is deceiving you and you realize that he will betray you. Then, observe the extent to which you have betrayed yourself in real life by not being aware of certain behavioral habits (such as a great difficulty in trusting the other). Or how the fact that you don’t develop an admirable attitude towards the dreamed person’s personality is not disturbing your process of self-knowledge and self-realization in life. After all, this is also a way to betray yourself.

dream with ex

If it’s a person with whom you’ve had a relationship, such as an ex-boyfriend, it’s important to observe if you’re not behaving in the same way as you did when you had that relationship or relationship.

For example, if you were very jealous of the person and this greatly disturbed the bond between you, or if you did not dedicate yourself affectionately to them, being distant and more focused on your friends. Therefore, it will be important to analyze to what extent you are not repeating this same pattern of behavior in your current affective relationship, which could end up generating the same effects or results. It will be an alert from the unconscious to change your attitude and do things differently if you want to have a more satisfactory alliance with those you currently have a relationship with.

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dream of strangers

If the dream is about an unknown person, this may represent a facet of our personality that we are not yet aware of.

If the dream is about an unknown person, this may represent a facet of our personality that we are not yet aware of.

Perhaps attitudes or habits that we are beginning to develop and express.

Our interaction with this person in the dream will reveal a lot what we need to do to deal with this facet that he represents about us and our life. For example, if such a person that we cannot see the face or identify who it is is acting in a very passive or submissive way towards the others in the dream, it tends to incite us to ask the following questions: am I claiming my rights and desires? Do I comfortably let those who have a relationship with me make decisions regarding our life together? Do I end up annulling myself in favor of the other to avoid conflicts or even separation?

So, when someone (whether known or not) appears in our dreams, we need to observe that person’s characteristics (qualities, flaws), as well as their phase in life and the way we interact with them (both in real life and in the dream). ). And follow the script of questions written above so that we have indications of what to change in our behavior. In this way, we will be able to act more maturely with her in real life (if she is known and present in our daily lives) or in our other social contacts.