Anyone looking to build a happy relationship has probably already realized that love is the basis of everything. By its very nature, it is strong, dynamic, creative, and therefore always sets us in motion. However, to keep the flame of love between the couple alive, it is necessary to be aware of some important aspects, and one of them is to escape the routine.

With that in mind, we from the Me Apaixonei blog team have separated five secrets, which we consider the most important, and we hope that, putting them into practice, your relationship will be happy and renewed by love every day!

1. Share first

Each person is unique and their way of loving and showing love is also unique, so sharing is essential. Want to escape the routine? Start by having a good conversation with your partner about the relationship.

Have the courage to ask him what he thinks, what he feels and what he would like to do to fan the flame of love that brought you together. We often have wonderful ideals when it comes to showing love, but does the loved one agree with our way of loving? It is very important to share what you think and feel to know more and grow in love.

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2. Take good care of what’s yours

Since childhood, we are advised to take good care of what we were given, even if it was a simple toy, a shoe, etc. This also applies when it comes to relationships.

Taking care of dating/marriage is like growing a plant: you receive it beautiful and full of life, and if you continue to care for it properly, it will surely live well and flourish before your eyes. If not taken care of, it will gradually wither and die. So, if you want to know how to get out of the rut in the relationship, first review your attitudes. Think about how you have taken care of the person God has given you.

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3. Prioritize your relationship

As the commitments of a life together become routine, the tendency is for the relationship to enter the package. There is always a bill to pay, a house to clean, an extra job to do; and when you’re finally done, what you want most is just sleep.

In these situations, the tendency is to leave the exclusive time you would dedicate to your partner until tomorrow. However, the next day, new activities will appear and you will probably not have free time. So the tip is: Get real and put your love at the top of your priority list.

If necessary, even mark it on the agenda, but don’t give up time dedicated only to him. Talk, listen, look into each other’s eyes and stay together without sharing time with anyone, including your cell phone, which, by the way, has stolen the quality time that love deserves.

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4. Walk together

Remember the beginning of the relationship when just thinking about going out together was a reason to be happy? Well, over time this can and should continue to happen. Even if sometimes the money is little, going out together, even if it’s for a juice on the corner, is one of the best tips on how to escape the routine.

For that, plan yourself: dress well, wear a good perfume and go with good will, with an open heart, thinking about the happiness that it is to love and be loved. If possible, you can even go back in time and remember what brought them together. If it was the love of books, for example, how about visiting a bookstore? If you like the beach, how about walking on the sea sand hand in hand? By doing so, they will keep their focus on a pleasurable activity and, what’s more, get out of the routine.

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5. Show love with gestures

Don Bosco has a famous phrase that says: “It is not enough for young people to know that they are loved, they need to feel love”. I believe that in relationships it is also like that. As much as the other knows that you love him, it is necessary to manifest love; at this time, small gestures make all the difference! An out-of-hours phone just to say “I love you”, a flower, a passionate note, a gift outside commemorative dates, spontaneous compliments and so many other simple things that, offered with love, make all the difference. In fact, the couple doesn’t need big things to be happy, they need to give and receive attention, dedicate themselves and take care of each other, breaking with the routine in the relationship every day.

All these tips, although important, cannot take away the spontaneity of the couple. From time to time, leave room for improvisation and allow things to happen naturally. Plotting the routine of every weekend, for example, makes it look like everyone is the same, and so on. So stay tuned, really prioritize love in your life and you’ll see that it’s not that hard to get away from the routine and have a happy relationship!