6 Signs You’re Unhappy With Your Relationship

Some people stay in their relationships for the wrong reasons. They ignore their unhappiness out of comfort or fear of being alone, and they end up hurting themselves more and more. Some are just in denial of how dissatisfied they really are. If these six signs sound familiar, it’s time to end your relationship or reevaluate some things.

1. You prefer to spend your time with others.

If you’re never looking forward to getting home and seeing your husband or meeting your boyfriend on Friday, that’s a bad sign. It’s healthy to spend time with yourself and have your own life, but if you don’t feel that desire to see the other person, if you don’t feel that longing when you go the week without seeing each other, it can be problematic. If the case is that one has not given enough space that the other needs, try to take a break, stay a few days without talking and see how you feel when you are away.

2- Do you feel like being single again?

Sometimes thoughts of what it would be like if you were single to go through your head is normal, but letting that thought become something routine is already problematic and needs to be addressed. What have you been doing in your alone moments that are making the desire to be single come to your mind? Are you reconnecting with your ex? Flirting with someone else when you’re out? If so, end things before someone gets hurt or you do something regrettable.

3- Putting effort into your relationship has been exhausting

It’s always bad when one party in a relationship simply stops trying to improve. If this continues with frequency, it will result in a dead relationship. If you truly love your partner and want them around, you must change your stance, working on the areas that you have noticed weakness in your relationship, even when it’s difficult.

4- You have almost no sexual appetite

When was the last time you had sex? Do you admit that you have avoided sex a lot of the time? There are some factors that can influence the sexual appetite of a relationship, such as stress, indifference, financial problems… but if none of these are the problem, you may not like your partner as much as you used to. The best thing to do is to sit down together, talk and solve this problem!

5- You don’t care about the outcome after a fight

At first you even tried to avoid arguments, but now you don’t give a damn about that. You want more is for everything to explode. You did your best to keep a cool head and keep the friendship in the relationship, but now you don’t care about it anymore. The way you handle fights in your relationship is an important indicator that you are unhappy with him.

6- The idea of ​​a future together scares you

And not in a good way. You start to get anxious just thinking about it and feel uncomfortable imagining having a long-term future together. Trust your gut and listen to what all these signs are telling you. If you can’t imagine a future with your partner, what’s pushing you to continue the relationship?

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