Everyone knows that men are very fond of sex and are always very willing to do so. But that doesn’t mean they are satisfied with anything. Just as we women like to receive treats and affection, men also have their preferences and requirements in bed.
When we’re in bed with our partner, whether it’s a casual lover or a steady partner, we always want to satisfy them, don’t we? Take the opportunity to innovate – his pleasure is ours too. Some sexual positions are more arousing for men, others for women, and others are for mutual pleasure.
Most of the men interviewed agree that it is good to have a privileged view of their partner’s body, but not only that. The possibility of kissing during sex, having free hands for caressing and being in control of the situation are also among the most cited preferences.
Favorite positions vary. But some were cited almost unanimously. Vary the positions and never forget that your pleasure must also be taken into account. After all, what’s the point of just having fun? It doesn’t hurt to offer a night of pleasure focused on satisfying our love, but remember that what they really like is knowing that we’re enjoying it too.
We have gathered here the ten most cited sexual positions by the interviewees. Take the opportunity to increase your sex life and still drive your partner crazy, after all, they (almost) always deserve it!
1. “Puppy” or “On all fours”
By far the most cited by men and also preferred by many women to reach orgasm. In this position the woman is with her elbows and knees supported, like a puppy, while the man enters her from behind, kneeling or standing, if you are on the edge of the bed. It is also widely used for anal sex and gives men just what they love: a privileged view of their body while they have control over the speed and depth of penetration. You can help by wiggling a little or keeping your butt straight.
Architect Felipe Santorino (34 years old) explains this general preference: “I love the silhouette and the feminine back. Being able to have this vision makes me very excited. I believe this is why men prefer this position.”
2. Sitting on the lap or “Embedded”
With the man sitting on the edge of the bed or in a chair, the woman sits on top of him, either front or back. It’s best if you can reach the floor with your feet for greater security and control of your movements. Hands are free for all kinds of caresses.
3. standing
Preferably with the woman on her back with her hands on the wall. A slightly different position from the most used, but very simple and pleasant. With your hands resting on the wall you will have more security to lift your butt and him to caress your breasts or other parts. This position is not tiring for either of them and has a very exciting image.
Paulo Reis, a 32-year-old plastic artist, was one of those who mentioned this position: “I love seeing her from the back, it’s a very exciting position and I can still hold her breasts during penetration”.
4. “Spoon” or “Aside”
Lying on the bed, with the two of them on their sides and the man behind. This position, besides being exciting, can be very romantic. By leaving your partner’s hands free, it allows a lot of caressing and a tight hug, as well as kisses on the neck and ear. The man can get a good view of your back and your butt. It is also very suitable for anal sex, precisely because it allows your partner’s hands to help you with manual stimuli.
5. 69
Great preliminary position for penetration, which combines mutual oral sex and a lot of pleasure. Men love it because, in addition to receiving the desired oral sex, they can see everything and have easy access to their private parts as well. Oral sex is good for everyone and arguably the best foreplay ever. This can be a great position to start warming up the game.
6. Dad and Mom
Who says you have to be a contortionist to please your partner? The classic and well-behaved “dad and mom” is among the most desired positions by men. Because? Because they also like to exchange glances and kiss during sex. In addition, this position gives him control of movements. The woman can wrap her partner’s hips with her legs or let them stretch and close together, in this way the clitoris and the entire upper genital part are stimulated.
7. Woman on top or “Cavalcade”
In this position the woman is in control and commands the depth of penetration and the rhythm. While the man is lying on his front, the woman sits on top of him. Very exciting for them to relax and watch the show. Men can help you with the arms in the movement up and down the body. This position requires a good physical condition from the woman as it requires effort from the legs and knees.
8. Lying on your back
The woman lies on her stomach and lifts her buttocks. Penetration is done with the man lying on top of her, like an inverse of Mom and Dad. A pillow or pillow can help make your hip height comfortable for penetration. It provides a good vision for the man and in addition it stimulates his anal pleasure.
9. “Crab” or “Roast Chicken”
In this position, the woman is lying on her back with her legs bent at chest height, as if she were squatting, but lying down. The man kneels in front of you for penetration. This position allows for a deep penetration and the exchange of glances, always very exciting.
10. “Anvil”
Similar to the crab, in this position the woman lies on her back and places her legs on her partner’s shoulders. As it allows deeper penetration, it should be done, initially, with care not to hurt the bottom of the cervix. But it can also be very satisfying for women, as it stimulates the clitoris.
Human resources analyst Maurício Fragoso (27) chose this position as his favorite: “One of the reasons for this preference is that I really like being able to look my partner in the eye and see her expressions. Also because it allows you to see the breasts moving with the movement and is super comfortable for the man”.
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