There are bad and fake people disguised as good people

There are cruel people disguised as good people. They are beings who hurt, who attack through Machiavellian emotional blackmail based on fear, aggression and guilt. They appear to be altruistic people, but in fact they hide hidden interests and deep frustrations.

It is often said that “those who hurt do so because at some point in their life they have also been hurt”. That whoever was hurt, hurts. However, although behind these ideas there is a true basis, there is another aspect that is always difficult to admit: Evil exists. Cruel people sometimes have certain biological components that push them towards certain aggressive behaviors.

There is no evil gene, but there are certain biological and cultural aspects that can promote it. Malicious acts can occur without there necessarily being an underlying psychological illness. All of us, at some point in our lives, have met a person with this type of profile. Beings who appear to be pleasant people, with social success, but who in private outline a dark and extended shadow. In the depths of their hearts, they breathe cruelty, lack of empathy, and even aggression.

In our daily lives, we are often victims of false kindness, covert aggression, manipulation, etc.

“The world is not threatened by bad people, but by those who allow evil.” – Albert Einstein

We cannot forget that when we talk about aggression, we are not referring exclusively to physical damage.

Emotional, instrumental or verbal aggression are less denounceable wounds due to the need to be proven, but they are more common and that is why we have to defend ourselves.

We can all be victims of cruel people. It doesn’t matter our age, status or our past experiences. This type of people can be found in the middle of the family, in work environments and in any other scenario. However, we can identify them in several ways.

The dark-hearted person will try to seduce us with a lie. They will camouflage themselves behind pretty words and noble deeds, but little by little blackmail will emerge. And later, the creation of fear, guilt and mental violence.

Faced with these mechanisms, there is only one option: non-tolerance. It doesn’t matter that that person is an important person to us. The disturbers of calm and balance seek only one thing: to destroy our self-esteem to control us.

We will have the clear feeling that there is no way out. That they have us under their nets. However, it is worth remembering that “the one who owns himself is more powerful”. Therefore, it is important to end the game of domination and aggression with determination.

The games of domination and covert aggression are very complex. However, you need to act quickly to remove traps and react to hidden threats. The moment we feel discomfort or concern about certain behaviors, there is only one option: distance.

Valeria Amado

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