The glow you generate bothers those who live in darkness

Letting the heart shine and wanting to share that sensation greatly bothers those who have it filled with total darkness. It’s a shame, in fact, that wanting someone to be happy about your happiness can end up dulling your shine.

However, you have to know. In this life There are those who are essentially light and illuminate without blinding and those who blind with toxicity.. These last people are, furthermore, the symbol of that which overwhelms us and overshadows us when we seek more support.

Those kinds of people – remember – do not need you in their lives and it does not benefit you that they are in yours. Especially because friends warm up when there is sadness but they also know how to celebrate when there are goals and reasons.

As Carl Jung, father of analytical psychology, told us, loneliness does not come from not having anyone with us. This sensation is experienced mostly when we have someone with us who extinguishes our strengths, who overshadows us with their attitude.

Let toxic people drown in their poison

Brightness and darkness are part of nature, so the two types of people who identify both things coexist, communicate and sometimes contaminate each other. This is precisely the reason why it is easy to come across people who live in the dark and they are annoyed by the brightness that comes from the light you emit.

It’s not that your shine is unpleasant, it’s that some people just need to steal it from you to feel better. because in his soul there is evil and envy in his veins, a lot of envy. You know those mushrooms that look great but aren’t edible? Well, there are those with whom the same thing happens as with them: they approach you making you believe that they will be there and when push comes to shove they poison you.

That’s why Toxic companies must be avoided and those close to us that do not share the happiness we may feel must be let go. If you think about it, someone who is not happy about your achievements is not loving you well and that is the most important thing.

Thus, studies such as the one carried out by Dr. Carl Sellinger of the University of Texas It tells us that these toxic presences are difficult people.. Profiles that little by little use their power over us to turn off our self-esteem, our strengths and motivations to put us under their control.

Is being happy good or bad?

We love sharing good news with people we know.. We like to share our positive emotions, achievements and goals with those who are significant to us. And we do it through social networks, by telephone, by e-mail, with songs or in the thousand ways we can think of.

That’s why we don’t understand the dissatisfaction of some gestures that disapprove of us being like this, because we would expect a smile in return, a hug, a “that’s fantastic, congratulations.” Hasn’t it ever happened to you? ANDIn those moments the shine we brought becomes invisible and the emotion declines when no comfortable response is found.

Furthermore, when this is repeated many times, we come to the conclusion that Happiness is contagious, but only to those who allow it to be infected: Sometimes it happens that your inner peace causes discomfort in others and that has nothing to do with you, but with the management of the other person’s emotions.

Maybe it’s his darkness that bothers your brightness

Considering this topic, I have come up with a simile that I found very interesting and with which you may agree: eThose people who hate your light remind me of wisdom teeth.. I’ll try to explain to you why.

Wisdom teeth sooner or later have to come into our daily lives and probably not at the same time: at first they don’t irritate, but when we think we’re fine they start to hurt. Then, they lower our spirits and weaken the energies we have, so we are forced to remove them, to eliminate them so that they do not complicate our existence. When it leaves, the relief we feel is unmatched..

People who are cold in their soul and cannot find a way to shelter it generate an impact like that of teeth: they have to appear at some point because, like them, they are part of the human species. However, it is good for us not to forget that wisdom teeth have no use and also make our hygiene difficult. Continue to shine with your personal light and do not allow a darkness that is not yours to invade your spirit.

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