Stop suffering for those who don’t give a damn! Follow these tips and be happy

This article will teach you how to stop suffering for a person who has already said or has already hinted that they don’t care about you, your feelings or how you are.

The day cleared, but you couldn’t get to sleep. The night troubled you with several thoughts of that person. After all, it’s very hard to like someone who doesn’t want you.

All you wanted most was to know how to have her back in your arms for good, living an intense love, capable of overcoming all barriers, but the person didn’t want the same with you.

At various times you tried to win her over or win her back in every way, whether by going after, declaring yourself or doing something crazy for love, but it seems that none of it worked.

You’re just tired…

You’re tired of standing there suffering for those who don’t want you, for those who don’t give a damn about you. This pain in your chest feels like a spear going through your heart, but you don’t accept it anymore, you want to stop the pain of rejection.

Truth be told: you already understand that this person wants nothing to do with you.

And you need to get rid of what you’re feeling, get rid of this unhealthy passion that gnaws at your soul. But you don’t know how.

Let me tell you something that happened to me so you understand how to proceed. I’ve told this here on the blog other times, but it’s always good to remember.

My history…

I traveled with a relative my ex-girlfriend didn’t like. Added to this with another series of factors that had already been accumulating, she decided to finish.

Upon returning from a trip, I received the news: I don’t want anything to do with you anymore.

It made me feel like you probably are feeling right now. The suffering was very great, for days and days I stayed behind, wanting to go back, but nothing. The rejection was evident.

But then again, our courtship had never been a bed of roses. Despite having stayed with her for more than 2 years, there were fights after fights, always for reasons of jealousy, distrust and lack of control on the part of both.

But the pain of that separation was terrible.

One fine day I decided that I would ask someone more experienced and wiser for advice. I remember to this day.

After telling my story, this wise person told me:

It’s better for you to break up with her and suffer for a few months than to get married and suffer for life.

Those words split my feeling from my reason very clearly. I couldn’t go on suffering like that. After all, I wanted to be happy.

But you know what happens when you want to be happy? You cling to the first opportunity for emotion and feelings that comes along. Then, somehow, all your reason is blinded by the whirlwind of emotions that form inside your soul.

There are a lot of feelings inside you for that person. You like her so much, you can’t see another one, you think that only she will be able to make you happy for the rest of your life.

So no matter what she does, you always think you can keep trying. But sometimes it just doesn’t work.

The harm of letting yourself be carried away by what you feel is that when emotion takes control of reason, you will always end up making wrong choices.

There is a blindness in all people who are in love and involved in a range of feelings. These people don’t see obvious things, which only others (who are not in the same feeling as her) who are outside can see.

That’s what’s happening to you right now: you’re suffering because at some point you let the feeling overwhelm you.

This is the evil of the century.

People don’t know how to put feelings under the control of reason. Before, on the contrary. they put emotions above rationality, so they are blind to making good choices and then they make big mistakes in their lives.

THE REASON WHY YOU CAN’T STOP SUFFERING FROM THIS SOMEONE IS BECAUSE YOU CONTINUE TO HAVE YOUR MIND DOMINATED BY YOUR HEART.

You will only stop suffering because of that someone when you learn to take possession of their mind.

You have to analyze your feelings with your reason and master them, master them.

One word made me understand this, the word that man gave me. Perhaps this text has opened your mind to this: that you urgently need to put your feelings under the control of reason.

You’ve suffered enough, enough!

If the person doesn’t want you, analyze it rationally, it’s not worth it.

If you think about it a little, you will see that reason tells you that:

• To run after someone is to devalue yourself;
• Crying won’t bring you back;
• If you want to forget, you have to stop looking for the person;
• If you want to turn around, you have to cut contacts;
• To move on, you need to free yourself from feelings that only hurt you;
• A person who deserves your cry will never make you cry;
• Life goes on, so you have to go on too;
• Your true love is out there, waiting for you, but you will lose it while you are suffering because of someone else;

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