Relationship without companionship: a void for two.

Relationship exists to be lived as a couple, in a mathematics that needs to be respected and followed to the letter. It is only in this way that presence becomes sum and joy multiplies, in a wonderfully perfect conjunction.

When entering a relationship, the main intention it’s having someone to count on; it’s having someone to share the day-to-day and all the surprises, sensations and frustrations that it may provide.

What is expected of a relationship is to have someone who helps to understand the meaning of life, and who intends to walk together towards this meaning; It is against the rules of the relationship to go against the grain.

Never, ever will anyone enter a relationship to live alone, lacking a loving presence or affection. The basic and fundamental condition is to have someone to share a night’s rest, a hug of celebration, support in difficult times and that long-awaited and necessary: ​​“everything will be fine”.

Because no one wants to be in a relationship just for looks, or sometimes not even that. If it’s meant to be like that, better be nothing. Relationships without companionship become an emptiness that is difficult to bear, simply because it loses meaning; loses essential features; becomes false advertising.

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This emptiness lived together is extremely harmful, frustrating and challenging. Only at the cost of a lot of courage can this flawed and misguided mathematics be broken.

In this type of relationship, there are always two characters: the active and the passive. No one should want to assume either of these two roles. The asset clearly demonstrates that he knows nothing about the relationship. The passive proves that you know nothing about self-love and self-esteem.

Because if the passive lives with someone who doesn’t care about their needs; someone who doesn’t make an effort to be present with body and soul; if you are always alone on the street, at events, at the table or in bed, you are wasting time and feeling, two gems.

Anyone who doesn’t have time, and quality time, however small it may be, to dedicate to that person with whom he decided to share his life, doesn’t deserve this condition.

How many people do not live this reality? How many people are treated with ignorance, with inattention, with coldness? How many times does the excuse of tiredness, stress from work or traffic, or anything else become the perfect reason to become indifferent to who should be the center of attention?

Relationship is not that. Relationship is consideration beyond tiredness; it’s respect in any circumstance; it is companionship even in problems and in unpleasant situations; it is wanting to contribute in some or any way to a better day; it’s sharing tasks, confessions and secrets, without taking away the space and privacy, which are also essential.

Relationship doesn’t come with a specific formula, it’s made up of many variables. But companionship is an item that cannot be missed. Otherwise, it becomes an empty set, and the relationship will be compromised. Because, honestly, if you’re going to laugh and cry alone, it’s better to live with one than with two. It weighs less and makes you suffer much less.

For those in the asset class, I recommend caution. Your days as a callous partner may be over.

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Alessandra Piassarollo