Only those who treat with love are treated with loyalty.

Loyalty is a practice that many talk about and that everyone claims to practice.. However, when the moment of truth arrives, all these words fade in the wind like the morning dew, because loyalty is based on respect and respect is nothing more than the fruit of love, of the most sincere affection.

This term is more than just a personal value, It is a form of inner plenitude that we should know how to practice. Because loyalty is the most authentic mechanism to connect with someone, as well as with ourselves. It is vital that we are loyal to our instincts and intuitions, to our values ​​as well as to the people who nurture and shape our hearts.

“Fidelitas” It sinks its roots into Latin to give us a markedly spiritual meaning: “to be united to a god and to be faithful to that entity.” Now, in these days when our societies advance so quickly and the needs and gaps are so many, It is a good idea to practice, above all, that fidelity with which to “connect” again with ourselves.. With that particular “deity”, with that “I” that we sometimes neglect.

A heart that is capable of treating itself and others with respect and affection has the opportunity to foster much more harmonious contexts and dynamics and, of course, build more loyal ties. Happier.

Let’s put it into practice.

Respect, loyalty and bravery

We know that on many occasions “the formula” does not work. Whoever treats with respect does not always receive respect. Offering love does not always equal being able to receive it. However, the fact that this sum of factors does not always occur does not mean that we should stop practicing it.

First of all, What is necessary to practice every day is loyalty to ourselves.. Let’s give several examples to understand it a little better: let’s think about that person who continues with his partner despite being unfaithful. Let’s also think about that professional who is forced to carry out certain practices that go against his values, only because his superiors dictate so.

Let’s keep in mind, For example, to those children who begin certain studies to meet family expectations. It is clear that in none of these cases is loyalty to oneself being practiced, to respect for a system of both social and personal values.

Loyalty therefore requires a great deal of personal courage. Because The courage to be ourselves, whether we want it or not, will mean that we will have to fight more than one battle along our vital paths.and this is something that we must be clear about from the beginning.

However, only those who are able to connect with themselves to always practice authenticity of mind and heart will be able to give their best to others. That sincere, authentic and respectful love at the same time will also lead to being treated with loyalty in the vast majority of times.

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Treat with love, a change of perspectives

Wayne Dyer was one of the best-known psychologists and self-help book writers of recent decades. His transpersonal approach extolled above all the classic need to turn a thought around in order to create a new reality.

Let’s do that same thing now. It is possible that Many of us still have internalized the idea that treating each and every one of those around us with love is useless and even frustrating.. Because sometimes, those who invest in love only get disappointments, never loyalties.

We therefore invite you to follow Dyer’s proposal, to change some perspectives, some thoughts, in order to improve our reality a little.

The first aspect that we must take into account is undoubtedly personal integrity. Our words always say what we want to be, but it is necessary that our actions demonstrate what we truly are. If you believe in respect, offer it, if you defend loyalty, return it to those who offer it to you every day.

Act with love, believe in humility and always demonstrate reciprocity. If what you receive is not what you expected, at least you will have been loyal to yourself. Loyalty always speaks a calm language. Forgive mistakes, be an accomplice, trust until proven otherwise, and be able to show a calm and respectful heart even if the horizon announces storms. It will allow you to always have great inner peace.Remember, above all, that love is synonymous with loyalty. It is an implicit pact that you establish with your partner, with your family and with your children. So that, If you love someone, don’t betray them and if you don’t love them, don’t create false illusions and even less demand loyalty.

For all this, loyalty is very important in all types of relationships. Keep the above recommendations in mind to have much healthier relationships.

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