One day someone will thank you for meeting you and will never let you go

One day someone will be infinitely grateful to have met you. One day someone will thank you for finding yourself on that corner, or maybe it will be in a market, bakery or bank line. Or else it will be that mutual friend who introduces you. When that person approaches, your heart will beat fast enough to want to get out of your chest and jump. Your eyes will shine because a certainty will whisper softly in your ear and say: This is your special person who will never leave you.

But one thing is certain: Loneliness is a phase and not a state that will last your entire life. It can be short for some, almost non-existent for others, as there are people who have a gift for always keeping people close, or it can be a long and painful period where every day you will wonder how long it will last. But it will never last a lifetime.

And it doesn’t matter what happened to you in the meantime, it doesn’t matter if there was a heartbreak that ruined your self-confidence and made you protect yourself from everyone who approaches, or if your life is like a weird airport full of goodbyes and with almost no landing.

Wounds can be healed, fear overcome, mistakes forgiven and a fresh start written. Sadness can give way to joy that hasn’t visited you in a while and a new hug will appear for you to take refuge in. You’ll understand why it went wrong so many times, you’ll realize that everything you’ve ever felt before was not love but some fleeting feeling that made you want to take care of those who wouldn’t be able to give you reciprocity.

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You will feel safe, secure and not afraid to trust again. You will be able to vent without fear of judgment, you will not suffer offense or disrespect, you will have someone to turn to when everything goes wrong.

Because first of all this person will have a friendship strengthened in love and care, they will care about everything that concerns you, they will care about the little things that you think are insignificant, they will want to help you overcome your fears and seek together a cure for your pain.

You will feel good, you will not be ashamed to declare yourself or to show the love you feel, because this person will give you the certainty that it is you and will continue to be you for the rest of your life. Because there are still good people in this world, who are serious about relationships and who fight when they really love.

You’ll build a family, travel and see places you’ve always wanted to go. You will be happy for having had patience and not being hasty, for having had faith even in the times when you said that love was not something for you, that everyone else would have someone, but not you, that you would always be a person alone.

I’m not saying that it will be easy to hold on and that there will never be times when you feel like crying for a few nights, but it will all pay off, because you will have found the person who will love and accept even your faults, and that person will stay with you regardless. that, because love supports everything and does not go away.

Tatielle Katluryn