Of the difficulty of falling in love, or better let it go

You fall in love. There is no doubt, it’s potato, passion. A doctor’s diagnosis couldn’t be more accurate. At first sight. After years of friendship. After a few days, weeks, or months of dating the person.
For someone from the past that you met again. For the friend of the guy’s girlfriend’s friend who donated a kitten to her doorman. No matter how, fact is that you fell in love. He’s in love. She even thought about starting a treatment to lose her fear of the sea, because she loves the beach. And now?

And now, what do you do? It declares, of course. too soon? Too late? Too romantic? What if she just wants sex? What if she’s in love with someone else? What if she just wants to be friends with her, even though you guys get along like you’ve never gotten along with any woman before? What if she, just like that, doesn’t believe in love? What if she doesn’t want to date now because: a relationship ended, she’s going away at the end of the year, doesn’t trust you or doesn’t date people from work?

What if you don’t come out, and she asks you out days or weeks later, and you’re happily ever after? And if you don’t declare yourself, you don’t stay anymore, and when she’s a famous writer you’ll see a book of hers in a window, with the title: ” So-and-so, in this case, it’s you: the love I never had. “? Can you imagine? What if you don’t confess and someone else does, even if he’s lying just to get you into bed? By the way, what if you confess with your habit of being correct, but she doesn’t like men? correct, or who declare themselves, or who fall in love? Nothing can be ruled out.

So, have you already decided? Whatsapp, she can ignore it, better not. To telephone? Too invasive. Tag in person saying you have something important to say? Never. Open the game in person and say that even though he’s known her for a week, he’s just crazy about her? In twenty-four hours she’ll be in Paraguay buying fake documents to get away from you. What if you don’t confess and she thinks you just want sex, and breaks up with you?

A declaration after that will not work. What if you confess and she says she loves you, loves talking to you, loves being with you, loves everything about you except the part of watching romantic comedy together and of course the part kids can’t see on TV? Have you ever stopped to think about all this? Nah, better let it go.

Leo Luz

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