Did you know? The secret to a healthy marriage is not sex!

Couples who don’t get along, who do all the tours together and don’t even think about the possibility of doing separate programs or keeping a certain distance are considered eternally in love. But the truth can be quite different and even opposite to the romantic idea of a “soulmate”.

At the beginning of a relationship, the need and desire to remain side by side all the time is normal, but as the relationship matures, it may not be very convenient to maintain such close contact.

Lack of privacy can end the marriage!

According to psychologist Terri Orbuchwho led a survey of the early years of marriage following 373 couples since 1990, privacy in a relationship is much more important to happiness than having a good sex life.

Of the couples analyzed in the study, 46% had already been divorced and 29% said the reason for the separation was lack of privacy and/or time for themselves while they were in the relationship.

Furthermore, of the couples who said they were unhappy, 11.5% said that lack of space was the reason for their sadness, while only 6% blamed thesexual going.

The reason space is so important to a relationship is that, when everyone has their own interests and friends, as well as time for themselves, the greater the chances of feeling happier and less bored.

Spending time alone also allows thoughts to be processed more fully, without noise, thus making an assessment of life itself and the marriage itself.

Not to mention the possibility of creating more hobbies, hobbies and time to relax without having responsibilities with other people.

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It is common to think that the ideal is to want to spend every second of life with the loved one, but what may initially seem like a gesture of affection, passion and attention, over time can become the reason why the relationship wears out and until it comes to an end.

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