Missing you doesn’t mean you want me to come back.

You can miss, you can yearn for everything you experienced with a person you loved, you can wish for those memories to be repeated, you can get emotional again or think about several questions: why did it all end? Could it have been any other way? what would have happened if…? However, this nostalgia does not have to mean that you want the person who is the protagonist of this feeling to return to your side.

Missing can be complicated, sometimes it can also be accompanied by a pang of pain: we remember much of what you find in that mental trip to the past with longing.. However, the end had a reason and keeping your distance helps you avoid the temptation to return, because deep down you don’t want to.

We can miss the person or the story we lived with them, this greatly changes the meaning of the memory. Sometimes we do not want the person to return, but rather for the story to be repeated, and this does not have to happen with the same person. The history and the sensations we experienced can be partially replicated, perhaps now with another travel companion.

There are people who appear in our lives for a limited time, they give us the good and the bad and that is where the path we walk together ends. When we miss it is good to remember that the story has two sides, ours will still be and it is thanks to this that we can continue savoring the sweet flavor of those moments that make it special.

Whoever left never returns, even if he returns

This is when the difference between missing the person or the memories becomes important. When stories end, they end, and even if we want to repeat the same thing with the same person it will not be the samepeople mature, grow, develop and that is why they do not return to the same point.

Starting over with someone you already know, with whom you have part of their past in your history, or someone with whom you are trying to repeat moments already experienced in another era, will mean starting from a different point and that is why it may mean never meeting again. live or feel the same.

The memories we have stored, let’s leave them there, let’s savor the good taste they have left uslet us allow ourselves to feel them again when we close our eyes, let us fill our eyes with tears sometimes when we think that it is no longer there, but let us feel happy because they happened and in some way or another, they are still in us.

We are each of our memories and that is why we must live them like this, when you feel that you miss, feel it that way, but if it is going to hurt you again, leave it there, do not try to repeat or force something that is no longer there. You may miss him but you may not want him to come back.

To miss is to fill your moments with memories

Because missing is that, being full of memories, moments, adventures, stories, is being full of life, but it is also being full of past life.. It wouldn’t be good to stay there, we have our past, we miss it, but we have much more ahead of us to continue filling our memories.

Let’s put an end to it if it is our decision to get rid of that nostalgia, let’s stop being full of the past and open our eyes to everything that awaits us ahead, the people who were there will remain, recorded in our memory and in our emotions, but the People who are waiting to start walking our path are eager for us to open our arms.

Being brave also means trusting again, continuing to miss but risking new experiences and people.with different people, giving the opportunity for others to fill the gaps that we miss today, but above all people who fill us and continue contributing to us, who do not erase our memory but who leave us space to create new ones. stories.

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