Lithsexuality: when you want to love without being reciprocated

The lithsexuality It is a new emotional and sexual option which is part of that wide range of alternatives present today. This and others are consolidated more by social practice than by their validity from a biological and psychological point of view.

It must be said that the lithsexuality It is a trend that emerged and has been consolidated from conversations and publications on social networks. There are no studies on the subject and it is not considered a category as such in the field of psychology.

From the social point of view, orientations such as lithsexuality They mean an expression of freedom. For its part, science sometimes consolidates behaviors that are not always the most appropriate for a person. Regardless of their content, the point to evaluate is whether they lead to a state of greater well-being or not..

What is lithsexuality?

The lithsexuality It is defined as an emotional and sexual orientation, present in a person of any gender and directed towards someone of any gender. His only condition is to love that other person without being reciprocated.. Thus, the attraction or interest is maintained, as long as there is no reciprocal feeling.

Therefore, the lithsexuality It is a bet on the so-called “platonic loves”. A person with this orientation loves another intensely, but her interest is extinguished when the feeling becomes two-way. In these cases, of course, there is no sexual component to the relationship, or at least not a shared one.

As is obvious, a person lithsexual He does not feel frustration at not being reciprocated. On the contrary, the fact of not being one is what fuels their romantic interest.. Those who are immersed in this type of tendency assure that this does not constitute a masochistic picture, since there is no suffering, but happiness when experiencing feelings in this way.

Asexuality and a flag

The lithsexuality It can be considered a form of asexuality., which is another trend present in today’s world. In this there is no interest, of any kind, in having sexual relations with someone, of any sex or gender.

The lithsexuals They have their own flag with five stripes, each of them contains symbolism.

Red. Represents society, vitality and sensitivity
Orange. It is the color that identifies the lithsexuality as such.
Yellow. It means diversity in attraction, camaraderie, loyalty and honor.
White. It represents idealism and asexuality.
Black. It means rejection of the romantic.

The characteristics of lithsexuals

As we have already mentioned, the lithsexuality It is not a formal category and that is why no defined characteristics have been established for this orientation. However, based on what those who represent this trend promote, a series of features have been established that define them. These features are the following:

They are not interested in having a romantic relationship. In fact, they reject the idea. They feel an emotional indisposition towards relationships.
They see romance as a disgusting practice. They reject the idea of ​​opening their emotional world to another person. They may have feelings for another person, but they hate the idea of ​​turning it into a relationship.
Physical contact with the person they are attracted to causes discomfort. They are often attracted to fictional characters. Sometimes they don’t want to have any type of relationship with the person they are attracted to, not even a friendship.
They prefer to keep their feelings a secret.
Sometimes they have sex first and then experience attraction lithsexual for that person.

Some notes about it

Without a doubt, the features of the lithsexuality They are remarkably similar to those of teenage love. Also are very close to an experience of phobia towards sexuality or romantic relationships. From the point of view of psychology, this type of guidance is not constructive.

This type of attraction reflects difficulties in dealing with intimacy., both from an emotional and sexual point of view. The knowledge gathered in this regard indicates that a healthy adult is capable of deepening emotional and sexual bonds, without feeling that this puts them at risk or disadvantage.

It is difficult to conceive the idea that through lithsexuality well-being is achieved. You could say that this trend is an attempt to normalize an emotional problem.. It is not appropriate for a person to lock themselves in a bubble to experience in their mind what in essence should be shared.

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