If you don’t like something, change it

What do you not like about your life? Maybe it is something external, friendships, work, something that you believe is not in your power to change. And it is true. But, you can change it indirectly.

Let’s imagine for a moment that you don’t like how a person you interact with or have a friendship with is acting. The first step is to express your discontent, because perhaps you are dealing with a manipulative person, or simply with someone whose personality is not compatible with yours.

Be that as it may, you don’t like it, you don’t feel good in that situation. You can’t change that person, in that case you can change yourself.but at this point we are not applicable.

How should we face this moment? Changing the situation. If you find yourself uncomfortable with a person, walk away! You can’t change anyone, but you can change things.

Change scares us. They have taught us to be afraid of it, to accept suffering, to be conformists. But how long can we last in a situation like this?

Worrying “dumbly”

We have not been taught to change things, but to deal with them, to face them and, in any case, to “eat them” even if we don’t like them.

We have been worried since our childhood about anger, attitudes, situations… Concerns that affect us negatively and that are not beneficial for us at all.

Are you one of those people who think they worry too much? Have you ever found yourself in the position of worrying more than others? If so, it’s time for you to change this situation, because you probably don’t like it, right?

Not worrying excessively does not mean that we are free of worries, but it does mean that we learn to not give them so much importance. how we are giving them.

Many of the concerns we are approached with are quite “silly.”. Do they really deserve our full attention? Other people don’t give it to you, you shouldn’t either, start changing today.

It’s amazing how your life can change when you decide to change a thought. There are many things that have been instilled in us since our childhood, considerations that when we become adults torment us because something is not working well.

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Let’s take the right path!

The right path is the one in which we will find ourselves well, in which we have achieved balance. But, to do this, sometimes we must change.

How can we change the things we don’t like, whatever it may be? Follow these tips, because they will help you get rid of the fear of change and finally be comfortable with everything and everyone:

It is those who change who truly achieve it: They have also been afraid, afraid of failing in their choice, afraid of overcoming the “it is better to be worse for knowing than new for knowing”, they have taken the risk and have emerged triumphant.Use uncertainty to motivate yourself: because many times it is the same uncertainty that demotivates you, but think that what awaits you is something better. Are you really going to continue in that state where you are not comfortable? Change, the best is yet to come.Whatever happens, accept it: whether bad or good, every change, every choice will have its consequences, but whatever they are, accept them! It has been your choice and you must be consistent with this and all the others you make for the rest of your life. But you should be proud to have taken it. It is better to be active than passive in the face of circumstances. Are you alive.The change, let it be little by little: Obviously abruptness is not going to be something that guarantees positive results, which is why the changes must be progressive, well thought out and calm. There is no use in running too much.It’s normal to be afraid: It is so normal that you should accept this, but not let it get the better of you. You must be strong enough to overcome this fear, as if to face it and determine what really has weight here. Will fear or what you truly want be more powerful?If you don’t change, the changes will come for you: because even if you don’t want to see it, you are continually changing. Your family changes, your friends change, your situation changes, and sometimes these changes are not in your hands, you do not choose them! They come and you have to accept them.

Fear is normal, but if you don’t like something in your life, in your situation, in something you are experiencing, change it.. This will make you happier. Living in a situation that is not pleasant for you will cause your character to become negative.

Have you ever had to change in your life? Have you ever found yourself in a situation like this? If so, you can share with us how you felt better, whether by accepting and enduring a situation that you didn’t like or by changing all that at once by giving it a drastic turn.

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