Who never, right?! I believe everyone here has gone through this at least once in their lives. And if this is happening to you right now, relax, we are here to help you!

Falling in love with the wrong person is something more common than you might think, even because we put a lot of expectations on the other person. Much more than she appears to be.

When we are in love and we dream of having the loved one by our side, our brain creates fantasies to make it come true.

But really, who is the right person to fall in love with?

First of all, you need to answer yourself who is really the right person to fall in love with! Do you have any idea? Usually we look for a person who completes us, who fills us with joy, happiness, love and lots of affection.

If you are in love with someone who thinks completely different from you, who is not focused on making you happy, completing you, being your safe haven, then you are in love with the wrong person!

But how do I not fall in love with the wrong person?

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First and foremost, you need to work on your self-esteem, be fully aware of the patterns that occur in your life, and stop looking for relationships that only bring sadness, challenges and work into your life.

Our subconscious always brings out the traumas we have inside us, and the more you avoid this type of situation, the better!

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First, fall in love with yourself

Before falling in love with that guy/girl from your college, job, or club you’re going to, you need to fall in love with the wonderful person God created: you!

So invest daily to increase your self-esteem and be your best friend at all times. From there you will be more likely to make a successful choice on your next attempt at falling in love.

4 signs you’re really in love with the wrong person:

1- If between the two of you there is no respect and mutual support

two- If there are many secrets, lies, mistrust, etc.

3- If you don’t have the same plans and goals for the future

4- If you, with each passing day, need to try even harder to be by that person’s side

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What am I supposed to do now that I’m in love with the wrong person? (4 steps)

1- Talk to your family and also your closest friends: They are the people who care the most about your self-esteem, so open your heart to them and ask their opinion about the person you are with.

two- Notice the signs that this person has given you: If you are seeing that he has given signs that the relationship may not end well, stay tuned!

3- Expose your feelings to that person and see what their reaction will be!

4- And most important of all: Work on your self-esteem and reinforce it every day!

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To conclude, stop playing the victim and accept that at one time or another there will be a real probability that someone will disappoint you one day, that you may feel disappointed, that you may get upset and burst into tears, but never stop investing in your life!

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