How to win back your partner after a crisis

First of all you have to ask yourself why did it happen? What happened? Of course, the reasons for a couple crisis They can be diverse, and knowing how to identify what the trigger was is very important to save the relationship. Knowing what has gone wrong, on both sides, will allow the reconquest to be put on the right foot. The most frequent reasons for a relationship crisis are:

Lack of communication. Total loss of trust. Lack of intimacy. Absence of sexual relations. Jealousy. Distancing of one of the parties. Infidelity. Addictive behaviors. Money problems. Boredom. Lack of affection. Misunderstandings.

If your relationship is faltering due to any of these aspects, it is important to face it as soon as possible to find the best solutions.

Have you thought about resorting to making him jealous? There are actions that, although they seem like solutions, can only bring you problems. Trying to make them jealous and/or manipulate the other person so that they stay with you (or come back if there has been a breakup) is not a good option if what we are looking for is that this reconciliation be lasting. Never forget that people, even with a partner, are free beings and we cannot force others to obey us.

It seems like a Chinese story, but it’s like this: you will never love if you don’t love yourself, so don’t try to only look for your happiness in external circumstances, control your emotions and learn to love yourself and your life. In crisis situations, fear and insecurity invade us and we keep questioning ourselves: will it work? What I do? Will you mind if I tell you? Forget about begging for it to work, you both have to be reciprocal and have a space in which you value accepting love and feelings and even starting over. Remember that the effort has to be common, healthy relationships require 2 people.

Did you know that the main problem in relationships is monotony and lack of communication? Well yes, asking only questions and doing nothing about it is not going to provide us with any solution.

When this situation arrives we also have to think that not only the reconquest is enough, if the crisis has stalked you it is because the relationship It was not so strong and solid As you thought, therefore, this also has to be addressed.

Now that you have some guidelines to start your goal and that you have identified the root of the problem and that you know that being jealous on purpose is not the solution; are prepared for the reconquest. But it is important to have a real desire to save your relationship and time for communication, remember that there must be a willingness on both sides even if you are the one who takes the initiative.

An exercise that can help you significantly is:

On a sheet of paper, make 2 columns, one with your name and the other with your partner’s name. Write in your column those things that you think you do and are negative for the relationship. Do the same in theirs. Now, be critical and point out the 2 main problems of each one. Write down possible solutions to solve them. Now that you have identified the problems and have possible solutions, it is time to talk about it.

Stay calm and listen to your partner too. Like you, maybe he also has good ideas to solve your crisis. Think about the good of both of you, not just your own.

If you reach an agreement, you must commit to doing your best. Whoever wants can, never forget it, but you both must want to.

And if all this is not enough, below we give you 4 tricks that can help win back your partner after a crisis.

Admire your partner, we all like to feel admired. Listen to him, sometimes we don’t realize that only we talk, we tell our things, we complain, and the other party always has to listen; By nature, men tend more to keep things to themselves. If you can afford it, suggest that your partner take a little trip or getaway. Go to a special place, rekindle the passion that was extinguished, it’s good to have a change of scenery and have moments that you probably wouldn’t have in your routine. Get ready. Many times, when having a stable relationship we neglect our physical appearance. How many times have you heard: if I already have a partner, who should like me? Mistake! Taking care of our physical appearance will not only make our partner see us better but will have an impact on our mood and personal well-being.

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