How to Tell if a Person is Busy or Avoiding You

“Is the person really busy or is he just avoiding me?” I’ve asked myself this question several times…

I usually get along quickly with other people. So these “friends” stop putting effort into our friendships and allow years to pass before we speak again. I never understood why this happened.

I remember one friend in particular who, overnight, stopped talking to me. We talked every day until he suddenly stopped responding to my WhatsApp messages.

Years passed. So I saw this friend on my 25th birthday. That night, he said, “I promise it won’t be three years until we meet again, okay?!”

Needless to say, I haven’t seen him since, but I know he still socializes with my other friends. I see pictures of everything he’s doing without me on social media.

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This has happened to other friends before too and for a long time I justified their actions and told myself they were just busy.

But now, I see that I didn’t get the hint. These “friends” were really trying to avoid me. Only I didn’t have the self-worth to notice when people treated me badly.

Now I can know for sure when someone is really busy and when they don’t want to be a part of my life.

When I message someone in my small circle of friends, I know they will respond eventually.

However, when a new friend responds instantly for weeks and then suddenly stops responding (but still posts on social media), I know he has no interest in our friendship.

It took me quite a while to understand this, but definitely when I did, it was worth it. Today I feel less worried about people who don’t care about me. Now I can focus my energy on those who really care.

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You should NEVER beg people to stay in your life. Everyone’s life gets hectic at times. However, no one just disappears from the face of the planet for weeks on end.

Mature and honest people share when life gets hectic and they don’t let you down. If someone can’t do it for you, it’s time to let that person go.

You should know that if someone no longer wants to be in your life, the least they can do is approach you with respect.

Sometimes it’s best to keep a smaller social circle and surround yourself with real friends. You will feel better after doing this.

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