How to recover desire in a couple

In order to rrecover desire in the couple It is essential that you spend moments together in your daily life. Something very common is that your sex life slows down because you never find the time to have this type of encounter: routine, work, fatigue and so on mean that, in the end, you never feel like having sex.

However, this happens, basically, because you do not spend time together at home. It is normal for your home to be a haven of peace and disconnection, but it also has to be your nest of love, so reserve some moments to have a romantic dinner, have a wine after work or go out to the balcony to have a coffee in the sun.

These moments of connection with your partner Inside your house they will be vital to be able to recover intimacy and, therefore, give rise to a sexual relationship between you. If you only share a sofa, dining table or kitchen, in the end routine will overcome your passion.

If you want to recover your sexual desire with your partner, it is also important that you both want to do itThat is, both of you are willing to make some changes in your routine to activate your libido and regain the passion between you.

If only one member of the couple wants to improve their sexual life but the other does not, then it will be difficult (not to say impossible) for the situation to improve. In this sense, it will be essential that you know how to communicate with your partner to explain what you need, why you are worried and what you need to change. This way, if you both want, you can improve your sex life and re-create that special bond.

In this other unCOMO article we tell you how to talk about sex with your partner.

In addition to moments of intimacy, romantic dinners and deep conversations, it is also important that physically you meet again with each other. In order to recover sexual desire, it is essential that you experiment with your body again, that you communicate again with something more than words and, thus, you will also be able to awaken your senses.

Therefore, we recommend that to activate your desire you dedicate some time during the week to lie naked in bed and start giving you a massage, caressing you, kissing you tenderly… whatever comes up! The important thing is that you reserve an afternoon or evening for yourselves and that, in addition to having dinner or talking, you also have a moment in bed so that your bodies can reconnect passionately.

It is clear that if you want recover desire in the couple You cannot go in a hurry or with nerves. Planning a day of sex with the clock in mind or with work obligations in mind is something totally contradictory since libido will remain in the background and will not emerge at all between you. For this reason, we recommend that you try to lead a stress-free life or that, at least, when you decide to have these intimate encounters, you do so when you are relaxed, calm and unhurried, such as on the weekend.

If we live stressed, without time to even eat, then it is normal for libido and sexual desire to be greatly reduced. In this case, at unCOMO we recommend that, for your general health, reduce stress levels and allow yourself to rest or take time for yourself and your partner during the week as well.

You will see how, with a calmer and more relaxed life, the connection and intimacy with your partner begins to emerge naturally.

At unCOMO we give you some tips so you can learn to live without stress.

In order to recover the passion in your relationship, it is important that you connect physically again, as we have said above. However, keep in mind that a wide variety of sensory aspects come into play in sexual arousal, beyond direct stimulation of the genitals. Therefore, we recommend that you create a good atmosphere that encourages you to enjoy an intimate and sensual evening in which all the senses participate:

View: put on sensual underwear and get ready to be attractive in the eyes of your partner Smell: It is also highly recommended that you take care of the aspect of smell and, therefore, light aromatic candles or a little incense that creates a much closer and more welcoming atmosphere. Taste: Incorporating flavors in bed is very erotic and fun, so you can try edible paint to apply all over the body or also include a little chocolate or cream on your partner’s body.Ear: there is nothing better than playing some background music to create a unique moment in which we relax and leave stress and routine behind Touch: Obviously, touch is one of the primary senses in bed, but not the only one! Touch yourself slowly and caress your entire body to activate your sexual appetite

Another aspect that you can try with your partner to be able to recover passion and sexual desire is that you try new things in bed. Many times, the lack of sexual appetite is also conditioned by a general boredom in sex, a monotony that is no longer exciting, magical or stimulating, for this reason, opening your mind to trying new things can cause the sexual desires to be activated again. desire to have relations with your partner.

Some of the new things you can try are, for example, opting for different postures that they are more wild or passionate; you can also incorporate some sex toys or practices such as tantric massages, using handcuffs in bed, blindfolding yourself or playing role-playing games where you dress up to fulfill a fantasy.

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