How to move when I’m on top of him

The cowgirl position, that is, on top of him, not only gives us a lot of pleasure as women, but it is also very sexy for men, because they have a great view and work less.

If you haven’t practiced it before, don’t worry, it’s not complicated at all.

You may feel intimidated by being on top, because then that means you’re in control, but men love that.

So the first thing you have to do is feel confident in yourself. Do not feel sorry or afraid, a large part of this position involves you seeking your own pleasure and his comes in addition.

The three basic movements are the following:

1. Backwards and forwards

If you enjoy clitoral stimulation during sex, then you will like this move. Start by sitting on him and control the penetration. Then, simply rock back and forth on top of him, rubbing your clit on his pubic bone.

2. Up and down

Moving up and down requires a little more effort. You’ll use your legs to ‘bounce’ on your partner, allowing his penis to slide in deep and then pop out again.

It’s like you twerk, but on it, so you need strong legs, and if you don’t have them yet, don’t worry, this will do it.

Be gentle with this movement, because if you do it too quickly and with too much force, your partner’s penis could slip and they could have an accident.

3. In circles

This last movement is similar to the first, but instead of moving back and forth on it, you are going to make a circular movement with your hips. Try to do it as if you were dancing.

These movements are a starting point, but as you practice and discover what you and your partner like, you can modify them and become an expert.

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