How to make my partner trust me after infidelity

The first step so that your partner trusts you again after being unfaithful is that you begin to be honest with him/her and voluntarily tell him/her how everything happened, that is, the reasons why you came to cheat on him/her with another person. This way, your partner will notice that you want him to trust you again.

During this conversation, it is important that you do not hide certain details from her because you may think they may hurt her or you want to protect her from pain. The damage has already been done and, therefore, although the truth may hurt now, it is also totally necessary for you to rebuild the pillar of trust in your relationship. However, if you try to lie to him or hide some things from him and your partner finds out, the only thing you will achieve is that he will never trust you again.

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Although it may seem obvious, many people who have been unfaithful do not face the other problem of infidelity: break the relationship with the third person. Generally, what you usually do is ignore the person’s messages or calls until they forget about you. But this attitude is not only cowardly towards that person, but it will give your partner reason to think that you are not settling the matter because you are not sure that you will not be unfaithful again.

Therefore, be brave and tell that other person as soon as possible that you no longer want to maintain any type of relationship with them and that all you want is reconcile with your partner. Furthermore, if you make the call in front of your romantic partner, much better, since they will be able to see for themselves that you are totally serious about your decision.

That a person trusts you again After this sentimental “slap” it can be a hard and very long process. Generally, after infidelity, the damaged person will feel distrustful and may surely have false suspicions that you are seeing another person again, even if it is not true.

The first step for your partner to slowly trust you again is to sincerely ask for forgiveness and promise that you will never do something like that to them again. After this it will be important that be very patient and don’t get angry when your partner may be irascible, jealous or distrustful of you directly.

Think that it is something normal during the process and you should try show understanding at all times since, although it may not seem like it, he is putting all his strength into overcoming this painful situation. Therefore, put yourself in the other person’s shoes and support them in everything necessary.

In any case, you have to know how to see to what extent it is normal for this person to behave like this and if you feel that the situation is getting out of control or he spends too much time, considered months or a few years, with this behavior, then he may not be able to get over it and you will have to decide what to do.

Another negative consequence of infidelity is that the other person feels insecure, undervalued and, in many cases, that they are not attracted enough to their partner. That is, unconsciously, she thinks that it was her fault that her partner decided to cheat on her. Therefore, another very important step for them to regain their trust in you, as well as to help them love themselves again, is show him/her that he/she is the only person in the world you want to be with in this sense.

To do this, you can follow any of these recommendations:

Thank him for deciding to forgive you after the damage you caused him. Constantly tell him, and above all show him, how much you love him. Let him know how much you want him. It is important for him to regain his self-esteem. Thank him for being so wonderful and appreciate all his qualities. Never again be unfaithful or betray his trust in any way.

It will also be necessary for this process that if your partner asks for time and space, you give it to them without problems.

Finally, in addition to helping your partner feel safer and trust you again, the time you dedicate to be with him or her will also be important. This is essential so that he notices that you are giving him a much higher priority in his life.

To do this, try to find many more things in common with this person and make different plans throughout the week such as going to the movies, having dinner in a romantic place or even staying at home with him or her. A good relationship is one in which you can also treat the other person as if they were a close friend.

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