How to get an appointment – 7 steps

Neither women nor men feel comfortable going out on a date with a complete stranger with whom they have exchanged only a few words. That is why it is very important that before trying to get your appointment talk to that person. She or he should feel comfortable in your presence, laugh, have a good time and find that you are someone pleasant enough to repeat a possible meeting alone.

Test the territory, and before asking her out on a date make sure she’s not already dating someone. You don’t have to ask it directly, just observe her attitude towards you, normally when the person has a partner they don’t wait long to mention her when talking to a stranger, it’s an indirect way of saying: I like you but I’m with someone. So pay attention and you will know.

try find common hobbies with the person you want to ask out. This aspect is very important for the first point, if the other knows that there is something in common he will feel encouraged to talk with you and share a little together. Cinema, music, sports, hobbies, anything is valid.

Before jumping into the water, take into account the personality of the person you are talking to: they are quiet, shy, extroverted, etc. It is important to note this because with more closed-minded people, a hasty movement could make that person uncomfortable. If you like a shy girl, find out how to conquer her here. And if you are a girl and you are willing to ask him out, don’t miss our article about the 4 things that intimidate men.

If you have already followed the previous steps, you have a good time talking, having a good time, you notice that she is interested in you then don’t think about it too much, just invite her/him out. The best way to get a date is always the simplest: tell her that you would really like to get to know her/him a little more, that you would like to invite her/him for a drink. If you have a party nearby, ask him to accompany you, go ahead and do it because the worst thing that can happen is that he says no, something that is certainly not the end of the world.

Forget shyness, fear and jump into the water with confidence that there is nothing to fear. If there has been a real connection and feeling, the response will be positive without a doubt.

If you have made your appointment then don’t miss the keys to choosing a place for the first date and to overcome the nerves that we often feel with these meetings. There’s nothing to fear, it’s just a date! an opportunity to talk and meet someone interesting so take it slow and enjoy the process.

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Remember not to rush and ask that person out too quickly or you could scare them away, give the conversation time before taking the step. Remember not to rush and ask that person out too quickly or you could scare them away, give the conversation time before taking the step.