How do you realize that your ex wants to come back, with 16 simple gestures

Has your ex already forgotten about you? Sometimes it can be hard to tell.

After a breakup, many things can happen.

Maybe you want to look like you’re over it, even if you’re not.

Maybe when you see your ex, you don’t want them to know that you still miss them every day.

And surely the same will happen to him.

Or maybe they relate in a much more mature way, sharing their feelings and emotions of the process. Accepting what each one feels.

They may even try to remain friends.

If this is not his case and if he was the one who decided to break up with you, it is possible that his pride does not allow him to show you directly, that he hasn’t really gotten over you.

Or afraid to say something for fear that you are not in the same place.

He will want you to believe that he has moved on and is completely happy without you.

But the reality can be very different. Even if you are dating other people, you still i could be wishing to get back with you.

How can you tell if he really is over you or not?

It’s hard to close the loop until you’re 100% sure.

You don’t want to get into something new with someone who could be good, when you have someone you already know is perfect for you.

Let’s see then what things he says and does your ex, who show that he wants to get back with you.

1) Want to keep in touch

This is the number one sign that your ex is not over you as much as I wanted.

If you’re still talking, you’re still in the game.

Think about breakups you’ve had in the past: if you were relieved to break up, you probably just wanted to distance yourself.

On the other hand, if you had doubts, you would surely want to keep in touch.

So if he’s not really over you, he’ll probably find any excuse to talk to you.

Something like, “Today I started the day with those toasts that you love.”

Or maybe he talks to you about the past with longing: “Today I went for a run on the beach, do you remember the picnic we had that time? We had a good time, right?”

You can’t help it, because think of you often.

He might be worried that if he doesn’t keep in touch, you’ll start to forget him, and that’s the last thing he wants.

2) You catch him looking at you

Think about when you met your ex and fell in love.

You probably caught him looking at you intently when he thought you weren’t looking.

He was looking at you because his feelings were building and he just couldn’t help it.

Now he looks at you because he is thinking about those times.

He knows that he hasn’t really forgotten you and he wonders what it would be like to be together again.

Do you also find yourself thinking that getting back together with your ex might be a good idea?

In this case, the most important thing is that they do not repeat the same mistakes and repeat the same routine. That can only end as it began. Evil.

The only option is to make both of them forget everything bad about the relationship and leave it behind. May he long for the good things they shared.

There is a new method created by Samantha Sanders, a relationship coach, where she teaches you to enter your ex’s subconscious to make him accept his mistakes.

Once you apply it, you’ll get him to stop sending you mixed signals and come back knowing he can’t let you go anymore.

If you want to go back and ignite the spark that used to be between you, watch this video to learn the secrets and techniques that will make it come back for good.

What you will achieve will not be repeating the same relationship they had, but creating a new, much stronger and deeper bond.

Here is the link to the video once again.

3) He gets jealous if he sees you with someone else

If your ex is over you, he will have no problem seeing you with someone else.

Sure, it will be a bit awkward to introduce your ex and your new guy, but he won’t be jealous or unhappy.

But, if really not over youit is very likely that it will be very difficult for him to see you with another guy.

He’ll be jealous, maybe even angry (although he may not let you see it, but you’ll know).

Even if the guy you are dating is just a casual date, it will really hurt him to see you together.

He knows that it means that you are making progress and he is afraid that he has lost the chance to get back with you forever.

4) He acts strangely

Pretending to be over someone is hard work and almost impossible to sustain without some sort of consequence.

If you’re constantly trying to show that you don’t feel things, that you actually feel very deeply, that will come out somehow.

And each one manifests it in different ways.

You may find, or see, that your ex drinks a lot more than usual.

And he even ends up doing things he wouldn’t normally do, like staying out late or getting into fights.

The urge to drink after a breakup is common, but if he continues to drink after the initial grieving period, it’s a sign that he’s not over it and still wants you.

He could also be acting erratically towards you or other people.

Maybe he seems angry and lashes out at his friends over the slightest thing.

Or maybe, if he sees you, he’s aloof at times and very friendly at others.

All these are indications that his head is a mess and that he is pretending that nothing matters to him.

5) He’s with someone else and makes sure you know it

People often go straight to find someone new to help them get over a breakup – nail drives nail out, some would say.

But entering a relationship just to get over the pain is rarely healthy.

There are people who will get into a relationship simply to have someone to brag to their ex.

If your ex is with someone new and can’t stop bragging about her, she may just be doing it to make you jealous.

Are you constantly posting photos of them together on social media?

Is he overly affectionate with her if he knows you can see them?

Does he display grand gestures (like dozens of red roses on Valentine’s Day), even though you know that’s not his style?

If it sounds like your ex’s new relationship is an act…it probably is.

The opposite could also happen. She might be dating someone to try to get over you, but she doesn’t want you to know.

6) Quickly respond to your messages

If your ex thinks about getting back with youhe will be constantly waiting for you to send him a message.

And when you do, you may not be able to hold yourself back from responding right away.

Think about how you feel when someone you don’t really want to talk to sends you messages.

You’ll probably take some time before responding, continue what you’re doing, and only message him when it works for you.

And what happens when someone you’re anxiously waiting to hear from writes to you?

You won’t be able to focus on anything else until you’ve answered him, so you’ll do it right away.

The same thing happens with him, if he answers you immediately every time you contact him, it’s because He hasn’t forgotten you yet.

7) Offers to help you

When you were a couple, you probably helped each other with tasks you didn’t like or weren’t good at, like taking the car to the shop or putting up shelves.

If your ex is completely over you, they’ll probably feel less of a responsibility, not having to do that.

If he hasn’t completely forgotten you, he’ll keep offering to help, partly because he wants to, partly because it’s a way of seeing you.

That your ex still wants to help you is a telltale sign of hero instinct.

If you haven’t heard of it before, the hero instinct is a new concept in relationship psychology that’s getting a lot of attention right now.

It explains in a novel way, why some men quickly move on from their ex-girlfriends, while others want to get back together.

To sum up the concept, men need to feel like an everyday hero to the woman they care about. They want to be there for her and protect her from her.

I know it sounds a bit ridiculous. In modern times, where women don’t need someone to be their “hero” and rescue them.

And I couldn’t agree more.

But here is the ironic truth. Men still need to feel like heroes. Because it’s built into their DNA to seek a relationship with a woman who makes them feel like a hero.

There are phrases you can use or requests you can make that activate his hero instinct and make him commit to you forever:

Let him help you Support him Celebrate his success Mentally challenge him Make him feel like he’s the only guy for you

If he is always there for you, it is because he has not gotten over you and wants to come back.

8) Consults you for advice

If your ex keeps calling you or asking you to meet to share his problems and ask for advice, there is a good chance that he wants to get back together.

It’s true that you trust each other and he’s probably more comfortable talking to you than anyone.

But someone who is determined to get away from another person will not be looking for them for every issue that happens in their life.

On the other hand, if he starts talking about problems with his current partner, it is a warning sign.

Maybe he wants to let you see that his initial passion is running out and that is thinking of going back with you.

Evaluate to what extent you want to continue getting involved in their issues.

9) He left things at your house

Do you still have your ex’s favorite pair of jeans in your drawer?

Have you left your console still connected to your TV and even though you keep promising to go get it, you never do?

Is the recipe book he used to prepare you romantic dinners still sitting unused in your kitchen?

Leaving a toothbrush in the bathroom doesn’t mean much, it’s something very easy to replace.

But if your ex has left behind important personal items (emotionally or financially), then it’s a good sign that they haven’t forgotten you.

He didn’t take them in the first place because he was never 100% sure he wanted to break up, and now he won’t take them because he doesn’t want to close that door.

Leaving things at your house also means that he has a perfect excuse to come see you…

10) Keep frequenting your same sites

Do you keep finding your ex in the same places you frequent?

He knows your routine, so if this keeps happening, it’s probably not by chance.

Just showed up at your favorite coffee shop?

Or have you started taking your friends to the bar where you know you and your friends always hang out?

These are not coincidences.

He does it because he wants to be close to you (and maybe to make sure you’re not with another guy).

11) Your friends contact you

Yeah your ex is not over youit is likely that he is talking about you a lot with his friends.

And if so, they may be offering to try and explore the possibilities of a reunion.

They know your ex better than anyone.

Although he is not admitting that not over youthey’ll know what’s going on by the way he talks about you.

If you haven’t seen your ex much or talked to him since you broke up, it could also be that he has asked his friends to contact you.

He probably knows that if he talks to you directly, it will seem like he’s still interested.

If you can get your friends to do it, you’ll feel…